Not sure if I did the right thing by kicking him out in the cold!

He can go to his family's house he is just being stubborn or hoping to make you feel bad.

Your only "wrong" is getting back together with him. Kick him out for good and block him! No communication or closure or further proof needed.

Your broke hobosexual will be okay. He'll have a new sucker lined up by noon tomorrow. Moochers and users like this never stay single for long. I am curious why you entertained this loser for so long, and why you're questioning your decision to make him suffer the consequences of his own disgusting failures? He sounds so gross and sleazy. Do better for yourself, sis. Read the handbook, raise your standards about 300 miles higher than this.

nope. the only wrong thing is not going further and breaking up and making him an EX-boyfriend.

No, you did nothing wrong. He should've thought about that before doing this sketchy shit.

You did wrong by getting back together

He got himself kicked out by lying and attempting to cheat on you. Furthermore, he failed to come up with a plan for what he was gonna do when he got himself kicked out. Man chooses his choices and faces the inevitable consequences. None of that has anything to do with you. You're innocent, queen.

Girl, the only thing you did wrong was not kicking him out the first time he pulled this bullshit. He's literally using you as a place to stay and you're financing him indirectly in securing the next piece of arse he's trying to pull. If a man sends money to a woman, and hes not her relative, he's trying to f*ck her. Period.

Babe, why don’t you feel bad about yourself first? For him using you? Wasting your time, money and energy? Feel bad about yourself and not this shitty person who should’ve been kicked out in the cold long time ago. Love yourself … you deserve better than this trash

Op, make sure you change your locks.

Don't feel bad for him. He was testing you to see how much abuse you'd take.

Could have afforded a hotel room if he wasn't sending other women money

You absolutely did the right thing, when I had a hobo sexual living with me I had one rule, it was that he could not sell drugs. He went to stay with his friend for a weekend and he sold drugs and he thought it should be no big deal because he wasn’t doing it at my place. This was before Breonna Taylor was murdered by the police, otherwise I would’ve used her as an example as to why it’s not OK.

anyway I knew he had done it, I just had a feeling, he finally confessed a couple months later so I kicked him out.

The first night he spent every cent he had doing drugs behind a Dunkin’ Donuts with his buddies, and then when his money was gone they all went home and left him behind Dunkin’ Donuts. He decided the best thing to do would be to go to the hospital and say he was suicidal so they would put him in a bed, so they did.

At our local hospital we have a little psych unit where people can stay. Long story short, he had my burner phone, I guess he hooked up with an employee in the mental hospital who then sent naked pictures to my burner phone, so when I needed it back he wouldn’t give it to me because he had given the phone number to some chick he picked up in the mental hospital.

And then it got worse, when he got out of the hospital he went to court and got an emergency protection order by lying about me. I guess his mental hospital friend had told him that if he gets a restraining order a provision of that is that I am not allowed to get rid of or destroy any property that belongs to him so basically he would be allowed to store his shit for free in the basement of the house I was living in, that didn’t even belong to me. I went to the court hearing and so did he, I had also obtained a restraining order by this point, the judge listened to both of us and threw his out by granted mine.

this fool thought that I still had to hold all his shit for free. I waited a couple weeks because if I had been his landlord I would have to wait seven days, and then I started throwing his stuff away. I had to sell a couple things I couldn’t lift, but most of it went right in the garbage or it was donated.

Dude FINALLY came with the cops to get his stuff at the end of NOVEMBER (I kicked him out in July) and I still had his TV, a blanket, a bluetooth speaker & a couple other things I was using. I didn’t really want to give him back his TV, but I did because I still had it. This idiot and his mom tried to get the police to arrest me for theft, the police told them they would have to contact the court, so then he even went to the court and petition to have me held in violation of my own restraining order. Of course the judge told him no, I didn’t violate a restraining order I have against him.

But it was a total nightmare like a year of court dates for restraining order hearings & stuff.

Don’t let that happen to you. I felt bad too because all the people that he would go and spend all his money with every month, none of them would let him come sleep on their couch. Not one of them. Not even the girl who he spent all his money on every weekend, he would go to her house and do a bunch of drugs and come home broke, she wouldn’t even let him sleep on the sofa.

If the girl he was “blessing” wants to take him in she can. This is a good lesson for him. He’s not in a position to be giving money away if he doesn’t even have a place to live.

The only thing you did wrong was giving the loser another chance. Understand: this evil fuck targeted a woman who needs help for her child in a bid to manipulate her into sleeping with him. He’s disgusting and evil and you did the right thing throwing him out! Also, I LOVE that you sent the woman more money from his account. Queen move.