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Hi, i saw a few people talk about this on tiktok, but does anyone keep dating men that try to humble them ? It keeps happening and it's SO weird.
I grew up really insecure about my looks and I SWEAR, men never commented on my physical appearence before, especially when i was unattractive.
No one would try to neg me or make jokes about my looks or anything.
It's like they liked it, they liked seeing that i hated my self and found myself ugly.
I think maybe they liked the fact that they could be the only person giving me reassurence ?? Honestly i dont know.
Now i can say that im more attractive, i dont brag about it or call myself extremely attractive, i just know it, but some men i date seem to HATE that i like myself, they always compliment me, chase me etc at first and then when they see that i get a good amount of attention from other men and women they start to neg me.
I remember when i dated that guy and he told me he was going to stop giving me compliments so it "doesnt get to my head", and he did stop and started to compliment other women.
That happened like 2 or 3 times and it's so draining. It's always men that chase me and obsessed over me too like WHY ARE YOU NEGGING ME AND HUMBLING ME IF U HAD TO CHASE ME IN THE FIRST PLACE??? it's like some of them are brain dead
They hate happy, content, confident women who are just living life in peace.
They hate themselves so much that they cannot stand the sight of a woman who loves herself.
It's like guys who say "I want a girl who is pretty but unaware of it."
They know that a girl who is aware of how pretty she is would never put up with them.
Yeah, they can't stand the idea that a woman doesn't hate herself. Gives them less ammo.
I would never do things a man would never do for me. So men can suck it. If I need to be at their service they better be at my service financially. Men never fairly give and take, they just take.
This reminds of One Direction song lyrics, and the way Colbert made fun of them.
Don't you know you cease to be beautiful if you're aware you're beautiful? They are trying to make you beautiful by "humbling" you 😆
I'd like to leave quote from Andrea Dworkin,
"male pleasure is inextricably tied to victimizing, hurting, exploiting; that sexual fun and sexual passion in the privacy of the male imagination are inseparable from the brutality of male history. "
> I remember when i dated that guy and he told me he was going to stop giving me compliments so it "doesnt get to my head",
My pick-me friend always compliments her LV boyfriend and he actually told her to stop it so it doesn't get to his head. LVM logic is very consistent and truly something else
predatory af