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Have you ever had sex with a guy and he's trying to dirty talk and he just keeps talking about his own penis? He's just like, "Does my dick feel good? Does it feel big??" You're trying to have a good time and he keeps asking for reassurance about his dick. The worst part is they have a totally average dick and it's like having a large one is a sexual fantasy for them.
My ex at 21 was often doing this. One time though, we were watching TV and a woman made a small penis joke about her bf. He GASPED and it was like he had been stabbed.
A loud muffler on his truck should solve that!
So gross. I've had men do this, too. One of the guys who did this was actually super small, but I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I went along with it. Then he had the audacity later on to joke that I was "loose" and even started calling me "Loosey"! And I was too much of a Pickme then to set him straight and say that any woman would be loose compared to his tiny peepee. Ugh.
"Yeah baby but can you put it in all the way now?"....you say as he's already been fully inside you the whole time.
That level of insecurity is such a turnoff. I can’t imagine how you could comfortably continue having sex when his desperate leading questions are making you utterly dry.
A man should be sensually complimenting you during sex, not asking you to compliment him 😫
I didn't understand when radfems said that patriarchy is homosocial and lowkey gay. Now I understand. BTW this particular male behavior reminds me of the AGP hugboxes on Reddit. They go to communities only for them, or that they've banned dissidents from, to then hype each other up for greasy selfies.
It's like they both don't understand that by you asking teh other person to do or say X, they that means you aren't actually X.
That's when you answer back "It's..okay?"
Pornsick types I think.
Ew
i don’t understand why men have to effing talk AT ALL during sex. show, don’t tell 🙄 the talkers just ruin it.
I've had an ex do this as well, he kept asking me over and over about how he felt, kept asking me to tell him how rock hard he was, and kept asking how he was on size. He was one of my first serious boyfriends and even as a pickme then it killed the mood for me and I stopped acting like I was enjoying myself and started answering like "I don't really know" and "I don't want to think about this right now".
I've had lousy men in bed in general and I refuse to moan or pretend to be into it if I'm not. If hes not doing a good job or getting me turned on then I'm not faking it. I would be dead silent and have a blank expression, or close my eyes, or look at the ceiling and not him.
If he would ask "how was it?" I'd be honest and say it was Meh or I wasn't really into it, if that's how I actually felt.
Anyways though just tread carefully when you're alone with him think about your safety. If hes the type to get mad or dangerous the bedroom is one of the easiest places he can do so and overpower you - while you're underneath him, easy to be pinned down, and more vulnerable. If you ever get a vibe of him having a mood it's best to try to leave asap.
No, but one time my ex asked me who had the biggest d*ck out of all the guys I dated 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
My husband occasionally makes jokes about being extra large, but he knows he’s not, so it’s actually funny. Anyway, he’s also perfect for me, lol.
Edit: and doesn't watch porn