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Think about it. For most of human history women have never been allowed to choose their male partner. In the West, It's only been the last ~70 years that women have been able to choose who to date without society forcing us...but if we count the societal shaming such as tHe wAlL, you will die alone with cats, you are a bitter lesbian, treating unmarried women like we can't do xyz etc etc then it has been literally ZERO years of us being totally free to choose which man we want.
The idea that there's women out there with insane sky-high standards but are completely baffled as to why no man wants them is hilarious and purely out of touch with historical & present reality. A complete concoction of a delusional male fantasy made to shame women for thinking.
The truth is, men would rather women have no standards at all. They want to go back to a time when all they had to do if they wanted a wife was to go up to a pretty girl's(👧) father at the marketplace and ask for her hand. The very idea of female choice, potential female rejection, angers them more than anything else. They want us to have no choice at all on what male we date.
Also isn't it funny that this is the only time males "care" about women's mental and emotional health? When we talk about postpartum depression, pornoprostitution, DV, etc then they don't listen but when it's about dating then they suddenly care if we end up lonely? There was a comment here from a user with a Black cat pfp. And she said "men don't truly care if you die alone, telling you that you'll end up with cats is a form of patriarchal social control where they want you either under their thumb or another man's". That comment really stuck with me.
I'm sorry for the messiness of this post but I just had to get this off my chest.
Edit: found the comment!
Women are biologically built to choose the best, fittest partner and reject the weak.
Men should have no say in who women marry.
It's absolutely, 100% true that they don't actually care if you die alone. They care about you being under a man's thumb for as long as possible. Your well-being has nothing to do with it. And statistically you're better off alone anyway so we know they're full of shit from the get-go. 🙄If I die "alone" with a bunch of cats I'll be happier than picking up after some scrote for 40+ years and then dying alone anyway because I outlived his unhealthy male ass.
You’re absolutely right. I believe many men have very low or even no standards at all. Most men believe women are inferior to them, and the idea of us having standards frightens them to the core although they’ll never admit that. Ladies, keep all of your standards and never let them slip for anyone. And I'll take a cat over a man any day, haha!
and now they want us to pay for dating apps…they want us to pay for access to dick. no thanks
Males "care" about the mental health of an unmarried, non dating, woman, but give no shits to the mental health of women they have already fooled. It's so funny to me when males being up how unhappier women are now, but seem to overlook how a woman's happiness was disregarded and treated with lobotomies in the past.
Men who threaten women with dying childless and alone don't do it out of "care". These guys really don't care about our well being. If they saw a woman being abused by a man they would never help her.
The real reason they threaten us, is NOT the concern for our well being, NOT out of fear of single women, BUT out of fear of single men.
Having high number of single men poses a real danger to social cohesion. Male aggression is a real thing. Violent crimes, rape, murder, drug abuse go up dramatically in societies with large single male population. Most men can't be MGTOW, they need a purpose in life to function as a healthy individual. A wife and a family provides them with purpose and stability. There is a reason why married men are more successful, why other men want to hire them over single men.
My standards aren't too high. The bar these men are able to reach is simply too low.
They think any standard at all is a high standard, when in actuality, the bar is pretty low.
If men truly lowered THEIR standards, then why are THEY single?