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I just heard a story of a woman who passed away of HIV because her bf slept around. Years ago A great singer called Ofra Haza who lend her voice for the Prince of Egypt has been contaminated by a man she was with and passed away. He was never held accountable. Even in my circle of people I occasionally greet there is a woman who found a bf and after 2 years of dedication she slept with him and when she woke up he was gone leaving her a note that said “Welcome to the HIV club” She’s pretty much on deathrow forever.
Men ruin dreams because they feel their manhood is challenged. Men baby trap you for control even when the relationship is over because how dare you not stay in contact and be good friends with him, letting him enter your house to see his kids instead of cutting all personal contact and only talk to him if he has questions about his children or plan visitations outside of your personal life.
They lie about their condition and when your kid has a mental illness inherited by the father you find out the hard way that he cares more about popping multiple copies into the world instead of opting out of fatherhood because he doesn’t want to gamble with his children’s health.
Where there is 1 female gold digger there will be 10 more male gold diggers with no shame. A friend of mine was running a successful small business and went bankrupt because she was paying her man’s bills and dept and now lives alone because he moved on.
At times I wonder if I should just forget about men and If I want to be a mother ill buy sperm. At least those men can’t lie and need to prove with test results that they are healthy mentally and physically before they can donate.
If I remain career driven I can still have a fulfilling life where I’m first place And never have to risk holding on the short end of the stick because of men.
Men are like MLM pyramid scams on legs. You invest in them, but instead of getting benefits the person on top of the pyramid is getting all of it, but you are just living in the delusion that you are getting anything out of it in the long run.
MLMs are less horrible because they don't give you STDs or force you into motherhood.
listen, i think sologamy (love the word btw) is the way to go. finding a HVM is too difficult and my time and energy are precious. you only live once, so don't waste your time. HVM already have too many great women to choose from. if you're not that into the idea of getting married and having a family, there is nothing men can offer you. the burden of never being able to truly trust my partner because he has the power to ruin my life whenever he wants is too high a price for me.
I love your analogy between men and MLM - so true, they’re all scams!
Where there is 1 female gold digger there will be 10 more male gold diggers with no shame. YES! Coudln't have said it better! 🏆Watch your money or it will all be gone by vidja-gaming porn addicted man children who need a mommymcbangmaid becwause the world is so mean to little fuckbois they can't even go to work. 👉👈🥺
why buy sperm? that's giving men and the corporations that back them money. adopt or foster.
Is youth diggers a thing? I mean old males who prey on younger ladies.
Whilst we’re on the HIV subject…even governments contaminate with HIV and Hepatitis. Look up the NHS contaminated blood scandal. Over 4,000 people infected without their knowledge. My father was one of them. He was 38. 20yrs ago he died as it developed into AIDS. My mum was pregnant with my sister at the time they found out. My father was very cautious about infecting all of us. He took every precaution. We were lucky to all be uninflected. They knew what they were doing also. But F it these people had disabilities anyway so we won’t bother screening the blood from prisoners from abroad knowing they were drug addicts. It’s cheaper this way! We continue to fight this today. If whole governments and healthcare providers can do it, it no longer surprises me that a single guy can. Disgusting!!!
I don’t agree with the part about mental illness-people with disorders shouldn’t necessarily have to opt out of parenthood, because they can live full and complete lives, and nobody is genetically perfect—newflash, you‘re always going to be gambling with health. I have disorders and yet I do plan to have children—I live a functional life.
HOWEVER. This is the stuff that should also be disclosed while dating, because the other person has the right to opt in or out
The HIV stuff is horrific, and those men should be in prison.