I've come off OLD but I remembered something that really distrubed me. So had to share.
When discussing with a guy that I had been single awhile he said he had too. But he had made sure he'd done many exciting things in the meantime. As I said that I had achieved many things. I didn't say what they were. But mine were based on travel, career and new hobbies....life progession.
However, his idea of excitement was that...............he'd attended sex parties!!!!
He said he'd got it out of his system so I didn't need to worry lol!
This says it all ladies.
Oh… my… god… Horrifying.
I honestly understand men in that I also don't want a partner that has been fckd by 40 women. But they'd never stop to think what an interaction will do to their 'market value'. So short short sighted they even brag about it.
The trash took itself out. At least he told you up front so you could boot his ass.
I was hoping his exciting things were sports and trips away. Sex is exciting but also dangerous is a life changing way. If you want to indulge in a cool trip, great, and the craving returning is great too, but if the craving to sleep around returns…there is no “getting it out of your system”.
Slutty men are disgusting, period. I don't know why men keep believing that a high body count is a status symbol. It only is to other men. Congrats, scrotes, you impress dudes but turn off women, maybe you're gay after all?
This is community dick to a tee.
What did he needed to get out of his system? His white dust? 💀
I agree with you when you say let them tell on themselves but... Jezzzz do these men not have a smidge of dignity or self respect or even self control, even for themselves. Don't they know how old boring and disgusting they are. Why are there so many sexholic men? I'm beginning to wonder if this behaviour should be called out, sexual abuse, harassment and coercion are NORMALISED too much, it's akin to the way the Irish Catholic Church NORMALISED abuse, hid it and got away with literal murder in some situations.