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Women underestimate how DESPERATE men are for our attention.
Even IF they have absolutely ZERO attraction or need of you in particular -- he still NEEDS your attention.
Don't believe me? Go out in public space and immerse in whatever it is you are doing -- reading a book or watching something on your phone. You may not see it the first few times because you are not immersed enough, but once you do -- I GUARANTEE some guy will come asking what so fun about the book/phone.
100% guarantee.
When they say "women needs so much attention" -- they are 100% projecting and talking about themselves.
I have been the quiet listener to both gender -- women needs at most 80% of attention. Because after they get sufficient attention, they will retreat to themselves for some peace and quiet. They have ups and down throughout the day.
MEN ENDLESSLY NEED 100% OF THAT ATTENTION 24/7 IT IS SO FREAKIN EXHAUSTING.
It is truly exhausting dealing with men, some of them are even worse than a child.
And a child is justified in his needs for attention.
What is a grown-ass man justification for needing your attention on every single little thing he does and says?
And I've said this before -- I am apathetic to men. And by that I mean there are really nothing about them that I am curious about, or want to listen to. I really really don't care about them and their woes -- it is really all politeness and pretend in my part just to keep my job. Nothing about them really interest me in anyway, unlike with women.
And boy if you have that kind of thing going on -- they can smell it, and their desperation to be the "special" one that breaks the curse makes them a million times worse. Sigh.
Nothing they ever say about women compares to their desperation in hogging all the attention they can get, and when you consider that men have essentially endless energy? Unlike women who have ups and down in a day?
No wonder working with men drains your energy so damn much. Now imagine the poor partners who have to deal with their bullsh*t past working hour, urgh.
And to think they already get all the attention they can milk for in their bros and their clients and the barbers and whoever else -- and they still want your specific attention for some reason?
Sisters who are convinced that you are invisible to men -- start ignoring them. And start ignoring them HARD. I guarantee you soon they will come scrambling for your attention so damn much, you will start getting sick from all of it.
Because I do. I really really do. And you will be too, soon enough.
Stay safe, STAY WOMAN.
Whenever I see a scrote posting some blatantly sexist shit, I just KNOW he's absolutely starved of any meaningful female attention irl or the social skills to court it. That's why he has to resort to rage bait.
They exist because of us.
The Y chromosome is a female-genes-choo-choo-train. If you get pregnant with a girl, that's your mate's grandma's genes hanging out on that extra X chromosome...inside your baby, inside you LMFAO
Females don't have a unique Genes-passing chromosome because it's not our shitty job to be evolution's Pony Boy. We're the default humans. Our Genes will make it no matter what the sex of our child is
Of course they need our attention they exist to give females genetic variation! Just remember that when a man is pestering you.
And mitochondrial DNA is only passed from mother to child and only women can pass it on. Really, all family trees should be based on female lineage. Really cool something I learned yesterday is that the egg that made me was inside my mother when she was formed in my grandmother’s body. We are like matrushka dolls.
I’ve noticed this and see it everywhere. They want it so badly, they resort to behavior like loud throat clearing, fake coughs, sighs, or trying to provoke your curiosity about something. Men in the grocery store whom I’m obviously ignoring will continue to do this behavior and I just CAN’T acknowledge them. It drives them crazy to exist in a space with a woman and not have her attention.
As husbands and boyfriends they get whiny when they’re not the focus of a woman’s attention. My first ex husband and I were double income no kids, similar work hours. Well, I couldn’t get five minutes of peace and quiet at home. Good example was when I curled up with a book and got a page or two in when my dear old Scottish husband emerged from the kitchen with a bag of oatmeal and had to ask me, “How do you cook oatmeal”? Stuff like this drove me right up the wall! Oh, the recipe was on the package of course. Of course I couldn’t snark about it or there’d be a fight and him pouting all night and I had no energy for that so I just told him how very sweetly and got it over with. Men like this just use a woman’s energy up.