Men Are Becoming More Alone as Relationship Standards Increase & Women Leave Dating Apps

😹 “oh no…it’s the consequences of my own actions!”

sis I'm DYING 😂

First thought in my head— “Ya did it to your damn selves!! All of you men have been showing women your unwashed asses since the home internet explosion. It’s just gotten louder, more threatening as the number of men online increases.

Agreed, it was a nice change of pace! 🙌🏼😺Society has been shaming single women and fear mongering them for so long. It’s nice to see a reminder that actually men are the ones who lose out as marriage actually benefits them rather than women on average, and that they’re the ones who need to change if they want women to even consider them. This dating culture/hookup culture mentality has us believing women have to convince the men to prove they’re worthy of a relationship which is completely backwards. The fact that men have been benefiting from easy access to casual sex or relationships with no effort for so long is appalling.

👏 Exactly! It is always the most mediocre or horrible men who demand and also neg women way out of their league in every sense. And they take that extra ridiculous step in expecting not to impress or spoil her as she deserves, and punish her later on for lowering her standards for them. They are so entitled and ungrateful. Why should she have to go 50/50 when she could be hanging out with hotter, better men who do spoil her, invest in her and care about impressing her?

Exactly. 😹💯 They are so convinced all women want a relationship and deluded in assuming that all women want a relationship specifically *with* them. It’s actually insane how they believe that. It never passes their mind that some women have standards and are looking for their dream guys, not just anyone to settle down with.

Most likely outcome is probably riots or a civil war. These men can't change.

I've thought this too. There's no way men will just stop feeling entitled to women's bodies overnight after thousands of years of conditioning them that way. They're not gonna just roll over and give up.

I'm worried about this future and that more of our rights will be taken away, but I'm also glad that women are not putting up with their shit and so we see articles like this.

I fear that one of the rights that will be taken away is our right to own our own finances and property as women in the US. Super scary for me..I'm not married, my father is dead, and my closest male relative is a brother in law. Eff that noise, I've worked hard for everything I have! 😤

Exactly!! 😂 It is such a projection. I never understood why single women are always interrogated about being single when it’s a running joke that the dating pool of men has many toxic and undesirable (not just talking physically but mentally/emotionally also) men in it. Of course high value single women who are seeking relationships would stay single until they found their match — why wouldn’t they be single unless they did?! Society wants women to have high self esteem but when they do have standards they shame women for those standards. Meanwhile most single women I know pretty much have their lives together (women of course aren’t perfect and there are some toxic ones and PickMes too but compared to men?! So many more options). There are a lot more options for men in terms of women who are a) good, attractive people and b) have the basics to be in a healthy relationship. So we should really be asking men why they’re single if they otherwise seem like a decent mate…

👏 Agreed! Evolution at its finest. 😹

Cuz no woman in the history of the world has had a bad childhood, no sir. Your recap made me laugh, thank you. Wow 700 pages.

I saw this article on Instagram yesterday too. It really went viral.

"Women can't handle an ounce of rejection" 🤡 Right, scrotes...last time I remember it's MEN who literally murder women for rejecting/leaving them...it's MEN who commit mass shootings cause they couldn't get their dicks wet...it's MEN who attack women with acid leaving these poor women permanently mutilated with life threatening injuries...

Go fuck yourselves with a broken glass bottle, scrotes.

Women literally go out of their way every day to coddle men and politely decline their advances every day *because* of the threat of being harmed. I know women who have the worst childhoods and complex trauma imaginable yet somehow manage to treat people with respect, compassion and even become more compassionate as a result 🤔 almost like abusing others is a choice and men use their trauma (whether it exists or not) as an excuse to behave badly.

Just wanted to say you’re not too old for this sh*. The tiktok algorithm will tailor to your interests so you’re not going to get the childish stuff. I got my mom on there and she’s enjoying it. Also I’m 30 and considered too old for tiktok too

Thanks for that 😊

Short form videos just aren't my thing - I tried watching short form videos on the TikTok copies Instagram and YouTube came up with. Did not enjoy the experience. 😅

I had to go look up what a "couch guy" is. 😁 I'm not sure any conclusions can be drawn from the way couch guy looked when his girlfriend showed up. I don't really get the fuss over that.

The West Elm Caleb thing, on the other hand - the backlash against fuckboys was a long time coming. Maybe unfortunate for Caleb that he's the one person this got unleashed upon, when so many other fuckboys brought this on. But it's not a bad thing to have scrotes running scared that any of them could be next to face public ire like that. Be afraid, scrotes, be very afraid! 😆

40 and up? From what I’ve seen widely discussed on Reddit and other sites men use those sites to troll for one night stands or they will date you for a while and then ghost you.

I got banned awhile ago from a certain dating app for stating my preferences of not wanting to date single fathers and looking for CF individuals.

Why am I not surprised? There are 60 year old men out there with younger children because they hooked up with a 30 yo when they were 50 b

Holy cow I didn't notice this, but my god it's like so insidious but the message changes more and more to cater to m*n.

Oh wow. I am so disappointed. They actually did something GOOD in changing the narrative and now they’re backtracking to coddle men. And somewhat unrelated but I think sadly one of the other reasons this article got so much traction was because a man wrote it so he couldn’t be accused of being “misandrist” “bitter/crazy” or whatever pathologizing bullshit scrotes are labeling women these days. It led some “credibility” (although it shouldn’t) to the claims for scrote men and that’s why they raged so much because it was a fellow man writing it and more people were listening and taking it seriously. Had it been a female writer no doubt she would be ripped to shreds and even pickme women would be attacking her too but since a man said it even the PickMes were listening 🙄 — interestingly, I never saw any personal attacks on the writer in terms of scrotes going through his background/history/making false accusations or calling him insulting names or doxing him (maybe they did but I didn’t see it) or insane hashtag trends about the writer which is standard for a female writer going viral for similar takes. Which just goes to show the double standards of how women are treated when they dare to tell the truth. Men are definitely more protected and yet I can’t help but think they should use their privilege in ways like this more often (with no personal gain for them, unlike the fake woke bros). We need more men to stand up and stand up for women in a genuine way and be willing to take the backlash & harassment as a protective barrier while also amplifying the voices of women/giving credit to women where it’s due —men will still endure less harassment than what women suffer when they speak out and they need to step up more often.

Jeesh, and I thought the earlier version was walking around eggshells.