Men and their obsession with women's hair

I have pin straight hair and my ex used to always say I should change it up and curl it or give it waves. They always gotta be changing you. I don't like using heat on my hair so the way it dries that's it. When he met me my hair was straight. It was my natural hair when he first saw me.

I think its somewhat pornfried but mainly a neg. In my teens guys often said I should dye my hair. Im glad I didn't lol. Thinking about it, I've literally never had a woman do that to me. Not even once.

My hair's kind of wavy/curly and the amount of times I've been in public, on a bus, in a shop etc and some random man would try to get away with touching my hair. Like, do you really think I can't tell? I can feel it, scrote. And then if you call them out they pretend it was an accident or something. Yeah right. I've never had this happen with women. I've also had the creepy comments about straightening my hair too, like, 'Do you ever straighten it?? Do you have photos?? 🤤'. One guy tried to neg me by calling it frizzy when it was just curly too. It's definitely a pornfried thing. These scrotes can't respect us as people - can you imagine them trying this with a man who had curly hair? I don't think so. They're always trying to put us in some creepy porn category so they can objectify us more.

I’d tell them to straighten their own hair but I’m sure most won’t have any 😂😂. I’d love wavy hair. I have straight. When your age, I dated a guy who made jibes rather then requests. He was obsessed with my hair colour as a ‘try to bring me down‘ tactic. Nowadays, if a boy gives requests or negative comments on any physical aspect of me even if it’s my eyelashes, I’m out. I haven’t had a woman do this to me - mainly compliments. I’m v wary of those who do this because could be controlling/ abusive. In the end my ex made requests on my outfits so it was foreshadowing of what was to come. A HV man would not give a crap how you style your hair, he’d be more focused on you as a person and the connection you have. Questions about your interests instead of ‘can you straighten your hair?’ are what to look for. No woman should be doing a casting call for Loreal when dating.

They literally just tell you to change it no matter what it is. Had mine dyed blonde "you should go natural", I have it natural "you should dye it I like this other hair color better".

Oh most of them seem to agree on disliking short hair on women but they'll complain about your long hair any way they can.

It’s some white supremacy thing. I like wavy and curled hair because mine’s boring and straight!

What I gather from reading these comments is:

1. White supremacy (straight hair over tight kinky curls)

2. Thought Bella Poarch's song was an instruction manual

3. Hate women no matter what but justify it to themselves that it's because x or y trait (like how when a woman is killed they say she was nagging her husband)

they're also obsessed with the length, too. I've had short hair on several occasions in my life, and while some guys are really (surprisingly) complimentary--since *flips hair* I know what suits me--others are BOTHERED lmao. "Why'd you cut your hair off????" "Why are you taking my preferences as a rando into account???"" MISANDRY 🤣

i’m tired of them talking above weaves and extensions too. i feel you. it’s giving jealous when they do that

I think it’s just to tell you what to do. Ive always had long hair. I used to date a guy that would tell me not to go for a haircut because he liked my long hair. It wasn’t like I was gonna be bald, I just needed to cut a few inches off, it was still long. but if I had short hair I’m sure he’d tell me not to grow it out. If my hair is wavy hed tell me to straighten it, if straight he’d want me to curl it. i believe it’s just a control thing!