Yes, well, if you're gonna spread it around in the hopes of getting laid the costs are going to accrue. Only date a woman you're actually interested in and the costs will be nothing for what you gain in return - and I am not talking about sex.
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Dec 21, 2022
Sounds like he thinks of dating like hiring prostitutes except it should be free, or the women should pay for the privilege of enduring his boring conversation and cringey wannabe alpha posturing, then hop on the futon at his gross bachelor pad for 3-9 minutes of disappointing pornsick PIV with no foreplay and a huge risk of catching something infectious.
You can't afford to date, scrote. It's fine; throughout history and in all animal species, the vast majority of males are not fit enough to find a mate. At least you still have your hand.
"Find a nice girl on your level or even one without standards"- But I bet she's gotta be gorgeous, successful, and look like a prize for him to even consider her in the first place. A woman like that WILL have high standards.
The bottom comments were so funny and on point. I knew there was something off about his "of a certain social level" comment until they brought it up. It's not social, it's hotness. 😂 Like uhm, what did you scrotes expected? 🤔 Insisting on only dating very attractive women from a rich background and experiences in the finer things in life are breaking your wallet?? No duh.
If you'd suggest him he could find his match at some dive bar in the middle of Bumfuck, Nowhere, and is a sweet woman who's a tad plump around the edges and doesn't exactly make his bros go "YOOOOOOOOO BRUH YOU REALLY SCORED A HOTTIE BRUH" yet she would not mind a date at the Olive Garden, he'd think you were trying to cut his dick off. 💀
Twox is exhausting, and I gave up on it long ago. The men in that community are terrible guests who derail discussions and harass the women. Their participation is worse than useless, it's a hindrance and renders the community pointless.
I've noticed more women there complaining about male participation and saying men should be banned from the community, but every time that happens, even more women jump in to insist they don't mind it because "not all men" and "how else are men supposed to learn?"
Well, they could go to therapy or start their own male-only communities dedicated to feminism and unpacking misogyny, instead of harassing and shouting down the women in Twox ... but heaven forbid we don't cater to them even in what's supposed to be a safe space dedicated to us 🙄
I'm over it. I refuse to do the work men should be doing.
There are always "white knights" in there too - "look at me, I don't do this kind of thing to women!!!". Like hell you don't, dude. And they definitely derail subjects. I got told by one guy that I shouldn't be generalizing about men because it causes division. Bro, eat shit.
I'll give the OP a tiny bit of credit in that he at least doesn't go Dutch, lol.
What absolutely kills me is that men refuse to understand WHY we don't want to pay. Like, I'm supposed to pay my way to date a dude that won't commit, expects sex from me within an unreasonable amount of time and no emotional connection, and will likely move onto the next when he gets bored? What am I getting out of that???? 😂
edit: I'm sorry, is that Vice932 guy really saying WOMEN are the ones who get cold feet with commitment? l o l
Like, why would I buy my own bowl of pasta to hear some guy talk? I'd rather dine alone and enjoy myself without subsidizing some guy's dating habits.
LOL I noticed that part too. Ummm someone needs to tell him that when girls hit him with the "I'm not looking for commitment", the "with you" is silent.
I loled at "women think their time is more important than men's!"
It is. What's your point?
One guy even complains of going on "4 or 5" dates with women only to get what he calls the "I'm not ready for a relationship feeling." Dude, if you're not ready for a relationship, stop fucking dating. You're not ready.
Men ADMIT they waste our time but somehow that's still our fault. Unbelievable.
I think his lack of motivation to pay for the date reflects on what he's looking to get out of this. It doesn't sound like he's going into these dates thinking "Wow, she seems really great. I look forward to spending time with her." It sounds more like he's going into it like "Okay, well let's see if this'll be something." Almost like he needs to vet better. I mean, he shouldn't have a problem with paying for the date in the first place... But hearing this it sounds like he's asking women on dates he doesn't even like.
If a guy is really - and I mean really - interested in a woman, he'll stop at nothing to date her. And it's not like they need to go to restaurants that add up to $125 for a dinner for two. Come on.
A guy would happily go broke paying for the woman he likes
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Dec 22, 2022
Dude is trying to date as many women as possible to fend off being friend-zoned. It’s like “wwaaaahhhhh, I wanna get my dick wet but it’s sooo expensive because I only want to date/fuck hot chicks and keep a rotation in case one ghosts me!”
Let me get that tiny tiny violin for ya with this self-imposed garbage. Either just save up for a prostitute or get off the dating apps and leave women alone. No one owes you shit.
If it was up to him he'd probably be okay to pay for a $50 flat rate to go on as many dates, with as many women as possible.
What a clown.
His problem isn't paying for the meal, it's that he dates too many women. If he concentrated just on one, he wouldn't complain so much about how expensive dating is....
What I don't understand is that I could afford to date like these men do and to pay every time with no problem. What's their problem? Don't have enough money? Get another f*cking job. Seriously, if you can't pay for a few dates, you cannot afford a family. And you can't afford to be having sex with fertile women if you're not able to pay for a child. If you're dating and hoping to find the 50/50 mule "soul mate" of your dreams, you're not much of a man. Why can I afford a wife but men cannot?
Guys like this who can actually get dates spend so much money on multiple dates desperate to get laid and then complain about it. The problem is you wanting to get laid so much--I guess sex is expensive with multiple women. Who would have thought?If they were decent men, they wouldn't have this problem because they would build something with someone they actually like and surprise, surprise, that leads to a woman actually wanting to have sex all the time and your money being used not actually feeling like a waste.A couple of mins of gratification after the desperation vs. something/someone you have to show for your efforts. It's not rocket science but the reality is that it really is all about the sex for them and they deserve the sad desperate mess they find themselves in.
He is more than welcome to not date. we all have money issues. He is welcome to use sex workers (not that I approve but it seems like this is where they play the I WOULD RAthEr Pay ThAT mUCh 4 GuAReNTeEd Sex argument )🥴. Not our problem
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Yes, well, if you're gonna spread it around in the hopes of getting laid the costs are going to accrue. Only date a woman you're actually interested in and the costs will be nothing for what you gain in return - and I am not talking about sex.
Sounds like he thinks of dating like hiring prostitutes except it should be free, or the women should pay for the privilege of enduring his boring conversation and cringey wannabe alpha posturing, then hop on the futon at his gross bachelor pad for 3-9 minutes of disappointing pornsick PIV with no foreplay and a huge risk of catching something infectious.
You can't afford to date, scrote. It's fine; throughout history and in all animal species, the vast majority of males are not fit enough to find a mate. At least you still have your hand.
"Find a nice girl on your level or even one without standards"- But I bet she's gotta be gorgeous, successful, and look like a prize for him to even consider her in the first place. A woman like that WILL have high standards.
Ugh. I just can't with men anymore.
The bottom comments were so funny and on point. I knew there was something off about his "of a certain social level" comment until they brought it up. It's not social, it's hotness. 😂 Like uhm, what did you scrotes expected? 🤔 Insisting on only dating very attractive women from a rich background and experiences in the finer things in life are breaking your wallet?? No duh.
If you'd suggest him he could find his match at some dive bar in the middle of Bumfuck, Nowhere, and is a sweet woman who's a tad plump around the edges and doesn't exactly make his bros go "YOOOOOOOOO BRUH YOU REALLY SCORED A HOTTIE BRUH" yet she would not mind a date at the Olive Garden, he'd think you were trying to cut his dick off. 💀
"You're a person. Not a meal ticket. Its 2022."
Obvious transwoman but okay, lol
Also wtf is just_cycle saying? Incoherent psychobabble?
I'll give the OP a tiny bit of credit in that he at least doesn't go Dutch, lol.
What absolutely kills me is that men refuse to understand WHY we don't want to pay. Like, I'm supposed to pay my way to date a dude that won't commit, expects sex from me within an unreasonable amount of time and no emotional connection, and will likely move onto the next when he gets bored? What am I getting out of that???? 😂
edit: I'm sorry, is that Vice932 guy really saying WOMEN are the ones who get cold feet with commitment? l o l
I think his lack of motivation to pay for the date reflects on what he's looking to get out of this. It doesn't sound like he's going into these dates thinking "Wow, she seems really great. I look forward to spending time with her." It sounds more like he's going into it like "Okay, well let's see if this'll be something." Almost like he needs to vet better. I mean, he shouldn't have a problem with paying for the date in the first place... But hearing this it sounds like he's asking women on dates he doesn't even like.
With other words dating multiple women is expensive. How about these loser scores only date women they want to marry? You marry only one woman.
If a guy is really - and I mean really - interested in a woman, he'll stop at nothing to date her. And it's not like they need to go to restaurants that add up to $125 for a dinner for two. Come on.
Dude is trying to date as many women as possible to fend off being friend-zoned. It’s like “wwaaaahhhhh, I wanna get my dick wet but it’s sooo expensive because I only want to date/fuck hot chicks and keep a rotation in case one ghosts me!”
Let me get that tiny tiny violin for ya with this self-imposed garbage. Either just save up for a prostitute or get off the dating apps and leave women alone. No one owes you shit.
If it was up to him he'd probably be okay to pay for a $50 flat rate to go on as many dates, with as many women as possible.
What a clown.
His problem isn't paying for the meal, it's that he dates too many women. If he concentrated just on one, he wouldn't complain so much about how expensive dating is....
What I don't understand is that I could afford to date like these men do and to pay every time with no problem. What's their problem? Don't have enough money? Get another f*cking job. Seriously, if you can't pay for a few dates, you cannot afford a family. And you can't afford to be having sex with fertile women if you're not able to pay for a child. If you're dating and hoping to find the 50/50 mule "soul mate" of your dreams, you're not much of a man. Why can I afford a wife but men cannot?
Guys like this who can actually get dates spend so much money on multiple dates desperate to get laid and then complain about it. The problem is you wanting to get laid so much--I guess sex is expensive with multiple women. Who would have thought? If they were decent men, they wouldn't have this problem because they would build something with someone they actually like and surprise, surprise, that leads to a woman actually wanting to have sex all the time and your money being used not actually feeling like a waste. A couple of mins of gratification after the desperation vs. something/someone you have to show for your efforts. It's not rocket science but the reality is that it really is all about the sex for them and they deserve the sad desperate mess they find themselves in.
Poor men, they can't afford to date 😢
He is more than welcome to not date. we all have money issues. He is welcome to use sex workers (not that I approve but it seems like this is where they play the I WOULD RAthEr Pay ThAT mUCh 4 GuAReNTeEd Sex argument )🥴. Not our problem