Love after 30

I never truly believed this nonsense that no one will want you after 30 After seeing so many women with new partners at any age. I heard this since I was 16. “Better get married at 20 to 25 because after 25 it gets harder and at 30 nobody wants you since your eggs are at an expiration date. “ This used to scare the crap out of me and even considered marriage at 18 with a man that could be my grandfather. My aunt got in a relationship with a high value man at 60. I’ve seen Videos where men admit that they only date older women because they have their life established.

One dude mentioned that he saw a 40 year old woman pumping iron and he said that he’s only 24 but he loves to be her man,

So what if you are old? when you have your own money and you look after yourself, preserving your beauty, be accomplished with your own career then you can always meet a high value man.

Only these child predators find women approaching 30 or beyond undesirable because those women resemble adults.

They want to baby trap the youngest women because it’s easier to control a woman when there is a 30 year age gap.

Ciara is over 30, Lure Hsu is over 40, and many other women in the Korean entertainment industry are beautiful because they don’t let men such them dry. Preserving beauty and focus on a lifestyle that slow down the ageing progress make women glow up so beautifully with age. Men can‘t do that, men have to rely on wealth to score some pussy while we women just have to be good people, live healthy to get the best in life.

These scrotes can b!tch and moan as much as they want but if they had the chance to date Operah Winfrey they wouldn’t give a crap about age and have her over any woman they find hot.

Because in reality men seek women who can make their lives better. And a pedophile only seeks the youngest ones they can exploit. Don’t be fooled when they justify their actions saying they only date women who are adults because if the age of consent was 13 and 16 is an adult legal age they would groom girls at 13 and sleep with them at 16.

Of all the couples that I know, most of the ones within my age group got married after 30. And about one third of the couples I know that got married in their 20s are no longer together now.

I need these posts about Hope at the moment. It’s good to see that all the things we’re told about the best people being gone when we’re young, has a counter-narrative.

Kirsten Dunst found her current husband when she was 34

My ex MIL was in her 50s at the time while being escorted by charming men who enjoyed taking her out on fancy dates, writing poetry to her, and sending her champagne and roses. Misogynists would have you believe that you are as good as dead to men once you're 40 years old, but she definitely proved me wrong with that one. I remember thinking at the time of knowing her, damn, what am I doing wrong in my 20s that I hardly ever received flowers except maybe once or twice in my life? 🤣 Meanwhile she was being treated as kindly as a pampered pet from these men. I will say this. In those days, I tried very hard to be a cool, good, laidback girl, and that was why I had shit results. She was a woman who, despite the outwardly feminine like beauty and grace in her looks and behavior, had a tough mind who knew when to cut people off the second she realized they were trying to hold one over her. She respected herself too much to be someone's punchline, and had high standards for herself and everyone else. If you don't even respect yourself, it's going to be a hard long journey to finding love and ultimately, respect from men. At 30 and beyond, luckily, it gets easier.

Amal clooney (36), Salma Hayek (43), Eve, the rapper (36), Meghan Markle (37.)

My mom got married at 35 and she married a handsome doctor. She met him one month after she got dumped by a total loser she was dating in a really cruel way because he found someone from a rich family. Now my moms rich and that guy’s wife never inherited any of the money lol.

Dating someone with more life behind them (than say a 20something) would give me good insight into how they process life mentally by how they tell their life stories. Do they have a victim mentality? Do they keep blowing their chances with their own mistakes? Do they learn from the past?

I'd hope to be dealing with at least a more well-rounded, self-assured person in their 30s, but I haven't dated anyone in their 30s yet as I only recently entered this bracket myself.

A lot of this discourse was designed to scare women into settling earlier. Of course, there are people who meet and get married in their 20s, but it isn't "over" for women after 25, 30, 35, etc. Here are a few other celeb examples:

Lindsay Lohan: sexualized and mocked by the media as a teen, called an over the hill druggie, etc. Now she is married and expecting her first child at 36.

Felicity Jones: an actress who was in a 10 year relationship (from 20 to 30) with an artist who never proposed to her. She eventually got married a year or so later to another actor and has since had at least one child.

Sara Blakely: the inventor of Spanx. She built her empire in her 20s and 30s and married a businessman at 37. They have four children and she didn't meet her husband until she turned 35.

Priyanka Chopra: she was in a toxic relationship (by her own admission) in her 30s and she got married at 36 to Nick Jonas (26). They have one daughter.

Cassie: a singer who dated P. Diddy for a decade. She eventually left him and married a more attractive man (a personal trainer). They have one or two children.

Don't listen to the media or manosphere lies that women over 30 can't find an attractive partner who will marry them and have children with them.