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I logged back into an old OKC account that I haven't used in years out of curiosity. Even at middle age, most of the men on there are self professed liberal "feminist" bros looking for casual sex, "ENM" relationships and kink. One guy's ad had multiple photos of him performing shibari rope on women and one pic of him proudly holding a sign that says he is aroused by the pain of others. 🤮.
This was gross in my 20s and 30s and at my 40s, I find them downright repugnant.
Also found the ad of a guy I briefly dated 8 years ago. He's closing in on 50 and wants kids. 🙄 OKC was always LVM central and it hasn't changed with time or age.
Men corrupt anything they get their hands (penis’) on. Especially when there’s even a smidge of anonymity. Ever use that app Whisper? When it first came out it was people posting general things about their lives or thoughts etc. Go on now and it’s a wasteland of loser men being pigs. They ruin everything. Usually with sex or violence or both. I believe TPTB know this about men and it’s why religion is set up to hand them everything on a silver platter. Power, control, sex (wives and a nurse maid). Otherwise they are just sex obsessed, violent, and a blight on society.
They are all pretty bad. I've used Ok Cupid briefly, Bumble, and Hinge. All LVMs on all of them in my experience.
most guys on dating apps are dusty. the dating scene is terrible
In my opinion OKC is the worst I’ve tried by every metric. Chock full of sex starved incels and unattractive scrotes. Paid for the premium version and it was certainly a waste. Hinge/Bumble is better in terms of quality oddly enough. I only have Hinge as I think they share the same demos with bumble. Too early yet to determine outcome but I think the options are better.
OKC is a glorified sex site full of soy boy wannabe perverts and old men who never got any in their teens who think a midlife crisis is the time to give screwing everything in sight a bash (men, women, couples, inanimate objects, they ain't fussy). They're all hanging out for the hot young girl they can manipulate but I think they left some time ago for tinder and hinge. A few of them manage to end up a +1 for couples and toy boys for much older women, the rest is mostly talk online, grooming and harassing people. Guys always try to turn dating apps into sex sites but OKC they succeed.
Remember OKC does not represent all the single men. But every single poly kinky perv will have an account on there. It's like fetlife and Grindr for bisexuals. It became popular with that crowd because it was easy to find somebody with compatible kinks.
I was on OKC like 10 years ago. Needless to say, I will never go back. Was rough then, too.