Hi, ladies,
I live in a very small, mostly rural country, where despite advancing social changes, a lot of men (yes, even young men) lean socially conservative. Due to a mix of financial and cultural factors, a lot of them live with their parents well up to 30 years of age, and are incompetent when it comes to any basic domestic skills. (My most recent low value ex could not run the washing machine or turn on the oven, but had the gull to say men are better leaders. He got dumped, but man, men have all the audacity and male pattern delusion.)
I'm in Ireland, by the way (though I am not originally from here), and I don't expect many other ladies from here on the forum. Yes, the Emerald Isle is very beautiful, but the men situation is objectively terrible. I also don't see many prospects of it changing, because I also find, culturally, many women here are OK with being passive and tolerating this kind of standard (I've internally battled this for years but I've finally allowed myself to be honest about it, as being an Eastern European woman, it's a generalisation but I think we are simply more aggressive and intolerant, and I mean that in a positive way). But it's not a problem, because I'm 28, not interested in dating, and doing a really good job levelling up.
I was originally just going to rant about the dismal dating pools in small countries like Ireland, but I thought we open this up to make fun of scrotes in general. Are there cultural/financial/social factors in your country that somehow make them even more scrotey? Spill!
Men are definitely better leaders when it comes to leading to disasters, wars, misogyny, rape and toxic masculinity.
Italian men are pigs and will trying to hit on every woman they meet even though they’re married. French guys are embarrassingly uncool and lacking any self awareness whatsoever. Only go out with them if you want to repeatedly cringe at how lame they are. They’re also very racist. Australians are ultra racist and judgmental but will try to make it seem like it’s your problem. They try to accuse you of being uptight if you tell them “no, I don’t agree with the racist generalization you just made.” South African men are the most racist people on the planet and make Australians seems culturally sensitive by comparison. Spanish dudes are all momma’s boys who can barely use the bathroom without a woman to hold their hand. They’re also weirdly passive and seem to want a mother figure to tell them what to do, as if anyone has the energy for that. English men is real life usually look like their family has a rich history of inbreeding but their egos know no bounds. They’ll look like a potato with a face and still think they’re the prize. They also love to show off their “wit” which means they spend the whole date saying things that they think make them sound clever. Then they look at you expectantly like you’re supposed to applaud or something.
Indian scrotes steal from feminism and call it humanism or egalitarianism, while acting like feminism is some form of terrorism. They deny that all bad things that happen in the country are enough to make women jaded/distrustful of men but they openly say that they hate feminism because they believe if feminists had their way, then the shoe would be on the other foot. (It reminds of that famous tweet that said: why are white people afraid of becoming a minority. Are minorities treated bad or something?) But how dare you talk about indian history and culture as if it wasn't great to women. Or my favorite: are you calling india sexist? India is definitely less sexist than American! It's another level of pickmes that don't see feminism over here. The most important thing to remember about these "egalitarians", "humanists" is that they love to plays devils advocate to every misogynistic thing they see: whether it's a married actor flirting inappropriately with an actress 1/3 his age, or a king in history that didn't have to worry about consent ("they were allowed to do this back then this was acceptable in society!" "Wrong and write were different back then")
I'll only write about German men, even though I've dated swedish, british, canadian, american, dutch, Italian, spanish, polish, croatian men,
as I'm German.
So, German men in a nutshell:
No compliments, always expect to go 50/50, always suggest walks or coffee dates for the first date, no humor, bad kissers, even worse in bed.
Blergh!
Brazil: A paradoxical association of holiness and profanity, conservatism and liberalism, all sprinkled with a horse dose of hypocrisy.
Bisexuality and trans fetish are common, but most of the times hidden due to the hypocritical nature of the "traditional family" institution. There's a glorification of cheating and visiting prostitutes, so much that it actually gives me nausea.
They might appear romantic and expressive with their emotions, but it's almost always love-bombing in order to get between your legs. Most expect sex on the first dates. The Red Pill rhetoric has been infiltrating amongst the machosphere - not that surprising, as we have the tradition of importing American trash.
The media and surface level discourse here is the worst kind of light feminist, sex-ponzi liberal. At the same time, there's a huge discourse - mostly on alt-right circles, the only type of right that has political influence - on blaming the feminists for whatever wrong is happening in our country, with the marriages, the families, etc. all the same 🐃💩 we already know.
Girls, when we claim that men associate themselves politically and vote according to the group that gives them more power by restricting ours, we're not paranoid, crazy or deluded by conspiracy theories. That's the dark, nude truth. The recent elections in my country SHOWED me that many, many men vote conservative as a wish or attempt to come back to the old times, when they had more acess to us - our bodies, our time, our minds -, when there was a stronger reliance and dependency on them as a class. They resent the political power and reassurances we have fought for and deservedly conquered. Please, don't underestimate their potential cruelty. That's not to say leftist men are better, or whatever, only that we must keep our eyes and ears very open, and our voices ready to scream.
I personally have almost conformed myself to the fact that I might never be able to marry. I would like to find someone from a similar cultural background of mine, because I love my country, despite all of its flaws, and because foreign men - even from culturally close countries - tend to fetishize and sexualize women from my nationality. No thanks, I don't see the appeal of being seen as a prostitute. Here, though, I'm from a kinda religious minority group that's more conservative than the average, but I pertain certain views and habits that are way too leftist and sometimes even radical for their taste. At the same time, I'm kinda of a prude - no shame is this word, nothing wrong with having prudence - for the general secular sphere. That's fine, however. If it happens, it'll happen. Until then, vet, vet, vet.
That's not to say there aren't HV men here, or from here in other places of the world. There is, I guarantee it. It's just that good men are scarse and precious, like jewelry we have to dig in the dump can to find. I'm just helping you out to sort out the type of trash I have more knowledge of.
Disclaimer: Men are men and if you find a good one, you have hit the jackpot.
Most American men I’ve met are proud of being unsophisticated and uncouth. I’ve yet to meet a charming British guy despite film propaganda and I especially do not find them physically attractive. Same with Irish. The Australians I have met are racist and loud.
Latin America seems like cheating is expected and acceptable as long as the man is a good provider. I personally don’t like machismo but adore a man that can dance (higher proportion of men from Latin America, Caribbean, Africa and Middle East can dance).
Spent time in 2 Middle Eastern countries and didn‘y date at all so can’t comment much. But I did appreciate that men were up front that they would not be marrying me.🤷🏽♀️
German men are boring but gentlemanly (on the surface). And contrary to the norm, they didn’t expect me to pay for stuff. Was very unimpressed in Italy and Spain.
Serbian men are my favorites because they are tall, have an anti colonial history and I don’t have to argue with them about whether or not health care is a human right. And they are not going to expect you to even reach for the bill. But same proportion of scrotes as elsewhere.
American men are bottom of the barrel as far as I'm concerned. Having married a West European man before, though, I am under liberty to warn ladies to stay away from men from Germany, The Netherlands, Belgium, etc, because they all try so hard to appear special but still have all the yucky parts of American men even if they physically look a wee bit better than them.
I had a very short thing with a Nordic man before and I did appreciate him at least paying for my meals. Social etiquette doesn't exist with these kinds of men, tho.. a bit brutish and coldish if I say so myself. At least he was normal in that he doesn't wish death on women or has a history of abusing/cheating on his partners, but like, the bar is in hell so I mean. 💀 Nordic men are good if you really are all about being 50/50 forever and if you never want to be properly married anytime soon.
Have never been with African or South Indian or Middle Eastern men or other types of men, and I believe y'all when you say Aussie men are insane and racist lmao! Canadian men are also a disappointment, don't ask me how I know. I've had one weird experience with a man from New Zealand who tried to get with me when I was 19 and he was fucking 30 years old at the time. 😪 It was just one guy tho so idk what kiwi men are really like as a whole.
This thread is so fun because I'm planning to take up traveling on a semi-permanent basis in 2023 and wanna scope out what the dating scene is like in different countries. Looks like scrotes gonna be scrotes no matter the environment lmaooooooooooooo
Men in NYC usually choose to marry someone from a similar socioeconomic background but will try to fuck as many women as possible before and after the wedding. Also all of the most attractive men in New York are dating each other lol
Don't even know how to answer this question about Indian men without making it unfunny
Obviously there are exceptions to all of these stereotypes but I think it’s useful to discuss how cultural differences affect dating in different locations. I’ve dated men from a range of backgrounds and their individual cultures always play a big part in their attitude towards relationships
American men: you never quite know what you’re going to get: is he a Scientologist? is he schizophrenic? is he a felon? a meth addict? a video game addict? was he molested as a child? living at home with his mom or dad rent-free and stuck 10 years in the past? is he never home? does he drop 1000$ on technology, guns and Testosterone? has he been in the military for 20 years? will he drop you suddenly and without warning in month 2 because he “doesn’t want kids and doesn’t want your lives to become entwined“ and would rather play Magic the Gathering and video games? have i mentioned video games? do you want to compete with VIDEO GAMES?? 🤣
Nordic men: for the most part they are educated, self-sufficient and even ok-looking assuming they hit the gym occasionally. However that is just the exterior. Deep down they hold a deep resentment against women for all this "equality nonsense" that they have to put up with and how they "can't say anything anymore" and "you're supposed to ask for cOnsEnt for everything these days" and "MeToo is a witch hunt". They are desperate for a Cool Girl Pick Me who would love gay sex (no PIV), eat cold pizza SHE purchased and remain a size two. They will not confess to this, unless you know how to game it out of them in which case they all enthusiastically agree. They are quite milquetoast in that their beards don't connect, they're not very butch, they get scared easily, but they maintain they are Alpha Studs. However they are suddenly very feminist when it comes to assuming traditional men's roles and know that they should not be expected to pay for things or be chivalrous because THAT is sexism. You can easily get yourself a run-of-the-mill 50-50 guy who will probably be under your foot and then complain to his bros about you behind your back. He'd cheat if someone would have him. He wants the prestige of being progressive but feels emasculated by everything. He will take this out on you with passive aggression or in a lot of cases physical violence. Cornsickness is rife. His favourite things will be craft beer, humor that punches down ("it's a JOKE sheesh relax"), getting BJ's he won't reciprocate and when you buy him stuff.
I lived in Morocco for 4 years and my daughter lives there now. It's very interesting.
Men do the things we Western women wish for: they are well-groomed, they smell great, they dress well, ask women out (sometimes too aggressively!) and are very marriage-minded. They expect to pay dearly for a woman (gifts of clothing, gold a house etc), but dating is seen as modern and sinful, so courting mostly consists of men seeing a woman on the street, and approaching her family to ask for her hand. It's mostly based on looks though, as women are all expected to be great cooks and baby-makers, so her beauty is the only defining feature. Moroccan women are incredibly beautiful, smart, talented and hard-working. It's sad they have to put up with this system.
The problem is, Moroccan men who have never left the country are looking for a mommy mcbangmaid just like every other scrote, plus a green card.
While Moroccan men are very affectionate fathers and family-oriented, they are also strictly patriarchal, and the concept of women's equality & human rights is nonexistent. There is a strong bro-culture where men enjoy close friendships with each other (a plus!), but they also behave badly together, roaming the streets at night, doing drugs & god knows what else etc.
When I visited my daughter last week, two men asked me for her hand in marriage. Lol. Duh, my daughter is a catch! Also too smart to fall for the BS. Another man asked ME out (she wasn't around, and I don't think he realized I'm old enough to be his mother. I look young for my age compared to Moroccan women, who dress like old ladies once they get married).
In proposing marriage nearly instantly, they reveal themselves to want a wife appliance, like every other man on the planet.
I'm sure there are great Moroccan men who are educated, wealthy and would treat a woman with respect. I just haven't met one yet.