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Hopefully this post is allowed lol.
I know that the man's character is far more important than the size of his buttocks, and I know that determining if the man is HV or LV or NV is definitely priority over his ass measurements....
But men care about the size of our breasts, waist, butt, the size of our noses and lips, and so on.
And I do look at the size of a man's butt if I am interested or find his face attractive. Is that wrong?
Do you prefer a bigger or smaller butt on a man?
Bonus story about me overlooking a red flag when it came to his view of women's butt size:
This is a past story from years ago that can maybe help a newbie to FDS. the ladies who are more wise in this may scoff at me but hey! I was very new to dating at the time. Now I know better. anyways him and I were cuddling up, no sex, and he wanted to show me a funny video he saw on Instagram. He was holding up his phone (and I had plain view of it) to find the video and I noticed he liked on Instagram a post that said something to the effect of "ain't no way I'm working a full time shift, being the sole provider; and coming home to a girl with a flat ass" . DID I LEAVE RIGHT THEN AND THERE??? No I didn't and I'm a fool who continued with him for 2 years!!! My fault. I overlooked so many red flags.
Women need to make fun of men way more. We’re literally judged for every aspect of our existence. And yes this question is appropriate. I have a few phrases in mind that I think women should use to start insulting them with to destroy their self esteem:
Shrimp or limp díck
Mid (even if the guy is attractive)
Short ogre
If his nose is big say “shrek vibes”
weak twig.
effeminate
If he does have a big ass say “you’d look good twerking”
Rate him from (1-10) but choosing like the lower numbers like “ph yeah he’s a 2”
Not my type I’m into tall dark and handsome men
These all effect men deeply being insulted for their height, dick size and strength is directly attacking their manhood. Women need to sexualise males more to make them uncomfortable
I prefer small butts on males. A nice toned one but it just can't be big. I like any size booty on a woman but for men... it needs to be small lol.
I prefer a somewhere-in-between ass on a man. Not big, not flat, somewhat perky is a plus.
A man's ass should not draw attention to itself. The less I notice a man's ass, the better.
We don't standard shame around here! Physical standards are important...and you deserve to be with a man that actually turns you on. Otherwise it just isn't worth it. The difference is that women don't tend to fetishize certain body parts or types in the way that men do. In short...being an "ass woman" simply isn't the same as being an "ass man".
Speaking for myself...my preference is just for a man that is physically fit which typically means that his jeans have at least a little something to hang on to 😄
Sorry if this response isn't helpful. Men tend to have "no assitol" no matter how big their gut is, have you noticed? 😀