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Sooooo, I've been putting off making this post for a while now, partially because I'm sort of embarrassed I let this scrote talk to me for so long, and the other reason being that I'm lazy to write so much, but, I know I need advice from women who will encourage me take zero shit from scrotes!
I had downloaded this app around 20 days ago where you can talk to native speakers of a certain language and just have conversations with them to get a better grasp of the idea, right? There I had this dude add me to talk to me, and I added him back because his profile picture looked attractive and he seemed like he was a consistent user of the app. Turns out, this dude is in his mid-late 20's and his profile picture was 7 FUCKING YEARS OLD. Mind you, I'm around 20, and this guy was 7 years older than me.
I felt deceived by the fact that his profile pic was so damn old and was grossed out because now not only did I have a man who's 7 years older added, but also he was ugly and unfit as fuck. Barf.
He was normal in the beginning, except he'd called me "sweetheart" within the first hour of talking to me, which made me kind of uncomfortable especially considering this dude is so much older than I am. I ignored it because I just wanted a native speaker to talk to, then, he started calling me "baby" (a word that was in my username; which I took from a song lyric) DESPITE KNOWING MY REAL NAME. He KNEW what my real name was but still called me baby.
Later, he'd left me on read for 8 fucking hours after I said thanks alot to him for wishing me a good and restful night, THEN, he said, he, a GROWN FUCKING MAN NEARING 30 YEARS OF AGE, is actually seen as a teenager in "his culture" so he's basically around my age. Like ??????? Grown men are not anything like teenagers for fuck's sake.
He keeps referring to me as "little girl" or "little girl friend" or "little friend" which makes me even more uncomfortable. I told him I'm not a "little girl" and that I'm just younger than his wrinkly male ass, and he didn't really say anything. He's also said he thinks I'm really pretty, nice, attractive, etc. several times. But I had enough the moment he asked me if I had a boyfriend. I obviously asked him where the fuck that came from, and he said "I was just wondering so I asked," like yeah, sure. I just couldn't text him anymore after that.
He also asked me to send him a voice message of me laughing at something funny??? What the fuck???
I've looked over way too many red-flags and creepy things just because I wanted a helpful native speaker to talk to, but I need someone else to tell me he deserves to be blocked because he's fucking weird. It's super long but I just needed to vent and also get validation for wanting to block this asshole. Thanks in advance!
Now
Lightning speed block
Like fucking YESTERDAY.
My hot take is if you need to come ask us whether to block: you should block. Where’s that gif meme of the Eastern Europe accent woman going “block, block, block” , when we need it….anyone?
This should not be a question. This is an automatic block. TRUST YOUR UGH.
Sometimes we need validation in doing what we know we need to do. You know what you need to do. This guy has a whole bunch of red flags. Don’t give him any more of your valuable time energy or brain space.  Every second you spend dealing with this guy is a second to you’re not investing in finding someone good to talk to.