Several weeks ago I was sitting in the second-closest pew to the front of the church, and I forgot who arrived there first, me or him, but probably me. A man with two young children came to the first pew and sat down, and throughout the service, he showed affection to his kids by giving them kisses every now and then. Was there any chance he was doing it to impress me? I wasn't able to pick up such a vibe, but it doesn't mean there was no intent on his part. It looked like he was a visitor there and not a regular. I don't even know if he was a single dad, but I suspected he was, somehow.
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Yeah, that’s a narc male on the prowl for a “stepmom appliance” like the lady above commented. I’ve never seen even one single male in church before. Not one in 30 years. So your spidey senses were ringing for a reason. Lots of women go to church under the erroneous belief they’ll meet a good man there, and this devil knows it. Unless his wife died of cancer, he’s a scrote. No woman in their right mind leaves a good man. My ex husband’s 2nd wife died and left him with a 5 year old daughter. He desperately wanted me to die whilst married after I broke my neck and jaw. So you gotta watch the widowers too, because you don’t know how they treated their wife whilst she died. Lots of times, they abandoned and abused her so that she’d die more quickly, and they could move onto a new model. If you’re interested in a guy with kids, make sure you let him talk about why he’s single. Give him enough rope to hang himself.
Honestly, this reads to be as a father doing the bare minimum required with his children. I am not going to praise him doing what he is supposed to be doing.
I think the real question is do you want to date single fathers? If not, he doesn't matter at all and you don't need to care what any single fathers are doing.
Am I the only one who gets kind of wary when a father is super affectionate and physically intimate with his children? Especially little daughters (they usually treat sons differently)?
I don't mean normal affection like a hug, cuddling or a kiss on the cheek - especially if the child initiates it-, but something like kissing them on the mouth or demanding that their child gives them a hug, cuddles or a kiss?
It's not definitely trauma related for me, because my father was truly HV and involved, but he never acted that way around us. It may be a cultural difference but e.g. a father kissing his child on the mouth is something that would be considered inappropriate here.
Sorry but this title made me laugh. Men really do have marketing tactics to entrap women