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General rule is that your dating history is noone's business and you do not share it with men.
However, there might be circumstances where he finds out i.e. your close girlfriend confiding while drunk. At first he might be taken back but then he says that he understands past is in the past etc etc. Normal reaction that you expect from normal person especially if he is ticking all other boxes for you.
BUT keep a check on him and his actions even more closely. Vet doubly hard.
Men can pretend that they accept but move you to fwb category in their heads even if you are in a relationship and drag you around to later drop you. I was shocked to find out the whole thread in manospehere where they discuss this type of situation where they are bitter over the fact that their now gf slept with them after 3-4 month while had sex a lot earlier with someone else after 1-2 months. Resenting woman for not doing the same. They all agree on dragging the relationship but ultimately they tick woman off in their heads. And the fact is this isn't even something sexually shocking.
Although it was not RedPill type of thread as I usually noticed the general standing of men is absurdly judgmental when it comes to women having any past. Vet everyone in your life and make sure to do you due diligence with people you confide yourself.
Men can be very fucking insecure and emotional not to mention predatory...which is why I support the double standard in NOT revealing your past as a woman, while a man should be vetted for his past...how did he treat women? How many women did he hoe around with? Was he a fuckboi? Or was he picky & responsible with whoever he slept with? Did he sleep with men as well? (since many women want a straight man only and I'm one of them)...etc
If we are gonna Judge women for the same sexual shit that men do...then it's only fair to treat a man's past differently and use it as an important vetting tool, while the same shouldn't apply to a woman's past.
This one YouTuber's Patreon advised that, no matter how old you are, tell the man you are a virgin because he doesn't need to know about anyone else. And you should know who is the blabbermouth in your friends' group. Cut them off. That's toxic.
this just means a man measures himself by what other men think and women are just a pawn for his status amongst his peers. This is a guy who cares what other men think desperately and if a woman is tired for sex one day he’ll feel like a ‘loser’ and lash out because he defines himself by how much sex he has compared to other men like a HUGE LOSER. Puke. Yes it’s disgusting because of how he sees women but it’s also disgusting in a pathetic way, so many men are desperate dweebs. Men are pick me’s for other men. A validated man doesn’t think this way.
i honestly believe that men want us to be dickmatized by them. us having other experiences with other men is competition to them. it’s an ego thing