I wish guys would stop putting "I don't know" on dating apps.

Why would you want men to stop pasting a big ole red flag on their profiles so you can avoid them?

They absolutely know they’re just hoping women believe them when they say I don’t know so they can continue wasting women’s time.

I swipe left. Wishy-washy sucks.

When you see that simply block them. Do not waste time wishing and asking why they have "I don't know" on anything even gum wrapper. Ladies, please stop wasting mental energy on them. Be sure to VOTE THESE CRETINS OUT OF EVERY OFFICE Nov. 8th and BEYOND🗳

Right, if you were in need of a service or a product and the seller would tell you “I don’t know”, would you use the service or buy the product? No.

So, here is what we do: When a guy says “I don’t know”, we swipe left, every.single.time, as fast as possible.

They choose “I don’t know” because, they want to keep all their options open.

In real life when you see someone for the very first time you KNOW within seconds.… if you want to sleep with them, get to know them better, go on a date with etc., it’s not much different online especially if you have a few photos online and you talk a little bit, then he will know.

Of course he could put in “looking for a relationship” right away instead of I dunno, but with most women he just wants to have sex, even if he’s actually looking for a relationship (which most arent though).

Men have become too comfortable on dating apps. They, like us, can get sex free, fast and often, if they just see a woman as a “mysterious black hole” (and yes, I’ve been referred to that in the past by a scrote who I met on OLD), so there really is no reason for them to just stick with one woman and be in an actual relationship.

I'm curious since I have not been on the apps in a while, have the pickings of men on the apps gotten worse since the pandemic? I recently heard about a study of differential personality change pre and post pandemic. " there was no significant change in neuroticism compared to pre-pandemic levels, but there were significant small declines in extraversion, openness, agreeableness, and conscientiousness." These are changes that are small and normal for a 10 year change incrementally, but hugely significant because this occurred in 2 years. Just something that has been percolating in my head.

This 100% 👏👏

I think it's good that announce that they're only looking for sex these days. It was far worse in the 90s when in person they'd pretend to want a relationship to get sex and then just leave. I just hope enough women avoid men and their bullshit enough so that we can maybe finally have some good men in the dating pool. Cutting off access until marriage would do a lot to bring men to heel.

F*cking yes! God it annoys me so much! I have my age limit set at 29, but I don't get it when men in their late 20's put "I don't know". You've had a quarter of a century of life experiences to figure that out! Same thing with wanting children. Idk, seems pretty important. You can't have half a kid.

In any case just assume "I don't know" like how we assume consent. Unless it's a yes, it's a no.

"I don't know" for relationships = "I want to sleep around, so I'll string along the ones looking for commitment in order to avoid losing opportunities, claiming 'I just don't feel a spark' at the end".

"I don't know" for children = "I don't want any but pretend I'm on the fence for opportunity. I will absolutely lose my shit if a woman decides to keep a child I contributed to making".

Honestly I'm grateful any time I see a "I don't know" or "here for a good time not a long time" type of line in their bios - it IMMEDIATELY is a red flag and has me swiping LEFT. it saves all of my time and energy.

It's definitely better when they immediately tell you who they are, rather than having the scrote be sneaky and try wearing the HV mask and lying.

"I don't know" means they want to live a playboy lifestyle but don't want to openly admit it as they know most women don't want to be used for sex.

Swipe Left, along with men who post just a photograph and no words... what, you're really that amazing? URGGGHHHH....

i dont know = hookup, wasting your time or some specific kink