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I consider myself a prideful woman. I come from a prideful family, and take pride in my life and the home I have built for myself.
There is one feeling that repeatedly emerges when dealing with most men these days.
It's humiliation.
Men have regressed so much as a class, that it's humiliating at this point for us to be with most of them.
I get this is a dating strategy forum and herin lies the dating advice and reminder. If at any point you don't feel pride being in your relationship, throw the relationship in the trash 🗑
It's humiliating to go on low effort dates
It's humiliating to be seen with a man who can't dress himself
It's humiliating to kiss a man who has bad hygeine
It's humiliating and degrading to be fucked like you're an object or a pornstar
It's humiliating to have to pay for dates
It's humiliating to live with a man that contributes nothing to your household
It's humiliating to hear people in your life tell you you can do so much better (and he's not a good fit)
It's humiliating to have to clean up after a man
It's humiliating to be in the driver's seat while he's in the passenger seat
It's humiliating when he says unintelligible things in front of your colleagues or boss
And so and and so on.
Most men are selfish, insecure and immature. They have no pride anymore because they have nothing to be prideful about.
Take pride in all you are doing to level up and be the best version of yourself. Don't ever let a man humilate you, be it on purpose or by proxy of being with him. It's disrespect if he makes you feel humiliated in any way.
Always leave at the first sign of disrespect.
Have a good week ladies 💖
It's humiliating to be a forever girlfriend
When I learned what this was from FDS, it made me hate men. Why would you put the so-called love of your life in a position where she doesn't know how to call you when meeting other people? How can you have 3 kids, buy a house with, start a business or whatever and then leave her with no concrete words or marriage license to say that you are tied forever? I know from ex forever gfs here that they were always embarrassed and humiliated when they talk about their bf and will use neutral terms like partner, or attempt to give the impression that they are more than dating but not lying about being married. I pit myself in these women's shoes whenever I hear such a story and its very depressing to think about
I feel like this should be a pinned post, because yes, this really does sum it up. I always say I’m disappointed, but I really think the feeling is humiliation.
I will add:
It’s humiliating to realize that I’m going to have to be the dominant person in the relationship because this guy is just WAY too agreeable and cowardly. Guess if someone breaks in the house in the middle of the night it’ll be me going downstairs with the rifle.
Lmao, I have the same problem. I thought pride was a bad thing until it saved me multiple times by making me feel repelled by some guys.
Spot on.
For years before I discovered FDS, I always felt humiliation for couples who split the check in public. How embarrassing it must be, as a man, to be seen splitting the bill with your date. How embarrassing it must be, as a woman, to need to pull out your wallet when your partner is present.
My HV dad has never humiliated my mom in such a manner. He set the benchmark for me.
Very well said. It’s all about the self-respect.  I tolerated bad behavior because I didn’t believe I deserved more.
 I will say it again. I am so so so glad I found FDS.  Everything in my personal life has changed for the better.  Yes, I am completely single, but wow is it better than dealing with what is available out there.  Men that do everything listed above.  And they wonder why no women want them?
I've been thinking about this. I've tried dates and even just friendships outings with guys and most of the time, I walk away feeling angry and hurt after...never have I been able to articulate this feeling or understood why. I think it's a feeling of disconnection and humiliation after being used.
Damn. I’ve never been (even vaguely) with a man by whom I did not feel humiliated.
This post is so on time . I have feeling so done lately and have been thinking how sad I feel dating around i could not put the finger as to what I am feeling thank you for confirming what we all women feel these days in dating it’s humiliation
Great analysis! that's why i'm solo <3
Very perceptive! Good advice.
Definitely resonating.