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Sometimes I get lonely for a partner and I want to laugh. Recently, I've been looking up relationship problems about hygiene on Reddit to remind me that my last two exes were gross and most guys are. It makes me laugh to be honest. We read a lot about male depravity - which we need to be aware of, yes! But those are heavy topics! Sometimes it's nice to read something "light" to remind me guys are so gross and rude and dumb and unaware and it makes me enjoy being without a male partner even more 💗
Story time!
When I was 16 years old, I had a male friend in HS and he was in the same friend group so we saw each other a lot and hung out a lot. we would sometimes chat on Kik (lmao...) and literally TWICE in one day he sent me a picture of his FECES in the toilet and saying he is taking a shit. I honestly was MAD and grossed out and I DID make him aware of that and to never send me that again. Gosh, what the fuck is with guys? Lol.
Would he think it’s funny if she sent him the same snap? Doubtful.
Or—god forbid—her changing a used, bloody pad or tampon, casually talking about her day? 🙄
Dude even if my female friends sent me something like that I would end the friendship. Talk about lack of empathy.
This woman hit the nail on the head right away. Good for her for seeing right through his literal shit. Yup, his action is showing he does not care. It certainly is time to walk away before he gets more chances to show her how much he does not care about her feelings in a variety of other ways.
And the word "uppity" makes me think of slave-owners chastising enslaved people for being too "uppity". When a guy uses this word, I'm pretty sure he thinks women should be his slaves. Run, don't walk, run. Run far, run fast.
Either consciously or unconsciously, he was shit testing to see if she has any self-respect.
Not my story, but one time a woman at one of my women's groups regaled everyone with the tale of how this guy she met on an app who cancelled on a date sent her photos of him throwing up in the toilet as proof that he was sick. At the time we reacted like "at least it's... honest?" But thinking back, he was exhibiting bizarre behaviour.
This is the same principle as the guy sending a video while on the toilet. He would not be doing that if he considered her a person he wants to make a good impression on, and not a MommyBangMaid who is supposed to serve him and never have feelings of her own.
Again, this is why we block and delete WITHOUT explanation.
Good lord 🥲
Why?! I’ll admit I laughed while reading this. But not because of him being on the toilet. Just laughing at how ridiculous this is.
And then having the audacity to be mad when she doesn’t want to date him anymore.
So I get when you’re with someone for a while, we become more open and we see each other in compromised positions .
But he is literally taking a shit and snapping that to her after one date. It’s not normal. It wouldn’t be normal even if they were on their 10th date or even if they were married for 20 years.
I’m glad she left, but not happy that she’s wondering if she’s being over the top. She needs to drop that mindset and realize that , yes, she’s right that he doesn’t care about if she’s attracted to him.
Hopefully she finds fds, she seems to get it for the most part.
Why did she even wait half an hour for him on the first date? 🤔
He one of those guys whose attitude toward dating is that they're not going to try to impress their date, she needs to like him for him. And like, mother fucker, get over yourself. Dating IS about trying to impress the other person. Not by being fake, but by putting your best foot forward. Send of vid of yourself on the toilet is unimpressive and nastyyyyy