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Went on a first date with the second guy in a month.
Dinner was lovely, however there were red flags throughout the whole date so I wasn't fussed with never seeing him again.
Said red flags:
didn't want to tell me where he went to school
he only wanted to talk through hinge, was weird about texting
We had dinner and that seemed ok. However he then asked me to go for a drink at the bar next door (which in hindsight I should have turned down). I only had one drink however once I questioned him on what he was looking for the date abruptly ended from there. I was too honest (never again) and said I would prefer to get to know someone over time before being officially in a relationship. He brought up the fact that he didn't want to waste time (but had been on/off in relationships the past year 🚩)
Two days later I get this BS message on hinge.
Like why ask me for follow up drink if you didn't like me from the meal before hand? LOL Safe to say I've officially deleted OLD. I've had enough. I've reached the conclusion that men on there are only looking for sex.
Lol they always say there is no chemistry when you don’t have sex with them. I made a similar post about this
"Didn't feel chemistry" = You didn't give me sex like I expected. That's why the date ended abruptly after you made it clear you aren't some easy lay.
The two days later rejection message is pathetic but funny because he's acting like you were pressed over him. Trash took itself out so a win is a win!
Ah yes, the classic 'see what a great guy (me) you passed on? I'm so mature and enlightened to send you this manipulative BS, hope you're too dumb/naive/desperate to see through it' farewell. Just block and delete darling. OLD is nothing but trash men.
Somehow this strikes me as ruder than just ghosting you.
You should respond with "I'm sorry but, who are you?" And then block. They can't stand not getting the last word!
It’s okay, you got this. I deleted my OLD apps two years ago and I’ve been meeting quality men.
Good!
his message to you makes me sick after the story. He’s gaslighting you to Cover his own ass for wasting your time. The audacity. I really hope karma exists.
BRAVA!!!! You deleted your unHingeD!!! 🏆
Epic red flags, especially dodging your question about where he goes to school! 🚩🚩
“I didn’t feel much chemistry” = You did not act like a free prostitute. (You won!)
Only LVM have the confidence and audacity to reject a woman how is not even reaching out or trying to connect … he must feel like a star in his own head. It’s delusional and extremely rude.
Omg what a DICK. The ‘quite’ comment (I see others picked up on how rude this is!) The weird evasiveness about normal questions The two-day follow up with an unnecessary message. After one meeting I really don’t feel these types of messages are necessary unless you’d asked to see him again The offer of a drink for someone he supposedly didn’t feel chemistry with. Letmewasteyourtime.com You won this one, lady. He sucks big time. And by deleting hinge you’ll be avoiding tonnes more just like him. Go you.
"I was too honest"
You mean you were so amazing that your presence alone made the trash take itself out
The fuckin tumbs up 🤣 Omg, what an idiot. Extremly rude.