Recently i went on a trip with a friend of mine, who has an ex she sees on and off. During the time of the trip, they were on. So during the trip she wanted to be on FaceTime with him at night so they could sleep on the phone. Mind you we were sharing a hotel room. Would you be okay with this or speak up about it?
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She sounds thoughtless and needy. Especially as she’s sharing a room with you and would be disturbing your sleep. Is she so lacking in common sense and courtesy that she doesn’t understand this? Or does she think its okay because she’s talking to her penis having king who’s needs must be prioritized above all else? I’d let her know this is disruptive to your sleep.
That's weird- what next level codependence is sleeping on a facetime call? Does that count as quality time? I'd probably say I'm not comfortable with a man having video access to my room - hang up or take it in the hall Or I'd just get myself a separate room if possible and not split the hotel w her
Yuck. This is pathetic, voyeuristic and controlling. No fucking way
Ex she sees on and off 🤡🤡 During the time of the trip they were on🤡🤡🤡 She wanted to be on FaceTime with him at night so they could sleep on the phone🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 Get this bozo out of your life and find better friends to travel with. Speak up? No I’m cutting you off in silence because a real friend would never disrespect you like this to begin with.
I would not be ok but I would stay quiet and just end the friendship when you are back home. Just remove yourself without a word and let them stand on the bridge they burned. That woman has the ultimate pickme vibe and you don’t need a pickme as a pal. Remember it’s chicks before the dicks.
I would be fine with it if it was a 15-minute good night call. If she wanted to be on the phone for hours with her bf, I would be annoyed.
I asked my now ex-boyfriend to stay on the phone all night. He said that was stupid and I realized he was right. I was a freshman in high school. I can't imagine an adult couple doing that.
I’m curious to hear what other ladies think about all-night facetiming. Like even falling asleep and waking up to each other on facetime. I’ve heard some friends/workmates do this and every time i’ve commented how weird/wrong that behaviour sounds (I hate people intruding on my beauty sleep) they just say “noooo it’s romantic!”… sounds so clingy and red flaggy but i could be wrong?
That's very strange, I wouldn't be ok with that. They should get their own room to do that.
it’s odd but i leave people alone that behave that way
Oof, that just sounds incredibly sad and pathetic. No doubt he understands that. But personally it wouldn’t bother me unless they kept me up with talking or something or if she tried to show me/my space on camera for him. If they're just both lying there staring at their zoomed in faces that's...well, sad.
Sleep on the phone? Sounds childish. I wouldn’t be okay with it. He is kinda in your hotel room via FaceTime.
Very uncomfortable and weird!
No I wouldn’t be okay with it. That’s a weird thing to do,