Hmm, am I cynical for having the FDS in me think this isn’t the greatest dating advice for women?

In an ideal world, yes. In a world where men take advantage of you, no.

“Make yourself and easy target! Make it simple stupid for any cheap, manipulative scrote to take advantage of you! Be naive as balls and allow any asshole a leg up over your thoughts and feelings!” Yeah. Sign me up.

I think this should only be done AFTER the guy has been thoroughly vetted. Preferably only when he’s made a commitment to you. Doing this for a guy who you haven’t vetted yet will result in you getting used for sex/companionship/money 99% of the time.

Lol how about date bravely, don't be afraid to be single til married 💅 move along and find the one

Women can’t be vulnerable around men. It’d be like an antelope being vulnerable around a tiger.

I like the advice BUT I think you should do it in a certain order. Ask the tough questions FIRST then if he passes your vetting, let your walls down but only if he does it first.

“Be vulnerable” (yeah right, share your traumas and needs, he won’t use this against you in the future, trust me🙄). This is horrible advice…

I did all that for years, and it only got me abused. I used to think it would all be worth it when I finally met my husband. 🤣 Dating was never worth even 1 minute of my time. Every man I've ever met has been a waste of time and a heart break.

Wow, this advice is for suckers looking to get victimized and used by loser scrotes. Basically, make it easy for losers to get at you. I vote no.

"Ask the tough questions"? LOL! As if scrotes tell the truth! But hey, at least you would have bEeN vuLneRaBLe, rolled over and exposed your soft underbelly for him to tear apart! Fun!

The amount of women worldwide who did all of the above and got great results: