In the first episode of Listener Stories, June touches on the fact that she dated some men as practice after learning about FDS. It piqued my interest that she said this. What do you think? I 100% recommend listening to that podcast episode by the way!
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If you don't practice FDS rules in real life then you are not protecting yourself. You can decide what your version of a HVM is and you can decide your own deal breakers.. but if you refuse to act on this information you put yourself in danger of putting up with endless BS. For example: You allow a "walk date" now he doesn't want to spend money on you, ever. You allow a late night "date" and now he treats you as a free hooker after midnight. You let him text all day and now he won't meet you in person or even call you.. etc All new men should be "practice" because we always have something to learn and they are all untested and most likely dangerous to our body, mind and/or soul. You got to start somewhere.
No, I haven't done that, and here's why: I don't want to let scrotes have more access to me.
I don't want to get used to "I see red flags, but let's keep this going... for practice." 😆
If you’re not going to read the handbook, go and listen to a bunch of the podcasts. All the pods are worth a listen and will most likely have the answers you’re looking for.
Practicing FDS on a bunch of guys is called a scrotation. Try out your new FDS boundaries and weed that garden of LVM.
FDS is a way of life, not just an idea about how to find a good partner.
Well yes! My last post about the mask falling in one week was me practicing FDS rules IRL.