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The guy was a complete NVM. Would turn any topic into sex, kept touching and even expected me to kiss him all the time.
The only reason why I didn't just leave, was because I didn't want to pay. I stayed till the end, didn't reach for my purse when the waiter brought the bill and blocked and deleted him when I got home.
At other times, I would still have blocked him, but I would have paid for my order thinking that I owed him it.
I used to legitly blame myself for a guy being overly sexual on a first date. I thought that it was normal and since I wasn't going to have sex with him, the least I could do would be paying my share.
Now I know that I'm not responsible for anyone's expectations and that if a man is being overly sexual, it's on him. He had a chance to court me and he blew it. Next.
Thank you all for this forum. I wish I knew about FDS a couple of years ago
Been there, done that. The free food is never worth it. The best thing to do is excuse yourself to the bathroom, tell a waiter/waitress or security about how your date is being weird, get yourself an uber and dip.
Well done you! I’m curious, did he seem overtly sexual in the run up to your first date? I ask because sexually inappropriate guys normally reveal themselves in the messaging stage. It’s like they shoehorn sex into any innocuous chat which is always my sign to dip.