This article may be aimed primarily at men, but I think a few of us need this. It’s vague and difficult to say that you need to change to become something f yes, but I don’t know how to do that 😅 I apply my usual be myself tactic, which fails a lot, but that’s all I can do“making” him wait until he’s taken you on three dates before you’ll sleep with him. - this day and age it feels like not having sex on the first date is making them wait. 3 dates is still nothing to me!
I’m the opposite. It takes me months, even most of a year before I start to feel anything. They need to be in no hurry whatsoever. Establish friendship first. Talk about everything. It’s all vetting including taking things super slow.
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This article may be aimed primarily at men, but I think a few of us need this. It’s vague and difficult to say that you need to change to become something f yes, but I don’t know how to do that 😅 I apply my usual be myself tactic, which fails a lot, but that’s all I can do “making” him wait until he’s taken you on three dates before you’ll sleep with him. - this day and age it feels like not having sex on the first date is making them wait. 3 dates is still nothing to me!
6 months to a year minimum honestly. That’s when true colours start to show
I’m the opposite. It takes me months, even most of a year before I start to feel anything. They need to be in no hurry whatsoever. Establish friendship first. Talk about everything. It’s all vetting including taking things super slow.
Tbh, I don't think this is the best advice for me bcs I can develop feelings for anyone very easily and say "Fuck Yes" to anyone.