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Unknown member
Sep 10, 2022
Men are ones who don't wanna get married and commit like real men! They just wanna slut around, be promiscuous whores and pump & dump women...men don't want to be providers & protectors, they don't want to be responsible fathers (deadbeat dads creating single mothers) Women don't want marriage because there's no man worth marrying, most men are abusive trash whores. But you won't see the MRA scrotes like Peterson mentioning any of that, they will just focus on blaming women and pointing fingers at single mothers as usual, which is not surprising, it's a typical male behavior to avoid accountability and throw the blame on women...and we have witnessed this happen over and over again since the beginning of humanity...blaming Eve for the downfall of humanity from the heavens...blaming women for rape & sexual harassment, blaming women for the deadbeat scrotes who leave their children, blaming women for men's emotional nature...etc
Scrotes are gonna scrote.
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Unknown member
Sep 10, 2022
Also, the human population is GROWING. Whenever the topic of falling birth rates comes up, we ALWAYS need to point out that the world human population is still GROWING. Men like Jordan Peterson and Elon Musk are bright enough (I know, I know...) to know that declining birth rates DOESN'T mean declining population. It just means that the population is growing a little slower than it was before.
These men are mad that women are only pumping out enough babies to grow the population 10bil by 2050, instead of 2030.
We can speculate why these scrotes want the population to grow out of control, but I'm more interested in why they're happy to spread misinformation about the world population allegedly declining.
The panic about "birrrthraaateesss!!1!!" is coming from a couple different places, depending on who's talking:
1) Uber wealthy people concerned about a shrinking labor force--when there's fewer workers, this naturally tips the balance of power and employers have to pay more/give more perks/be nicer to keep them, as opposed to hundreds/thousands of people scrabbling for a dozen job openings with very low pay. Also, the fact that they might have to take out their own trash??? Watch their own children??? Mow their own 200 yard lawn???😱
2) Racist, Christofascist xenophobes in the U.S. and Western Europe that think brown people are scary and white people are being intentionally "replaced" and they want white women specifically to pop more out. I mean, they're not completely wrong about white population decreasing...but like...so what?
3) People recognizing that this trend means lots of women are delaying or opting out of traditional heterosexual relationships and marriages, and trying to force/coerce/guilt women back into those subservient baby factory positions either because it serves their own self-interest (men) or misery loves company (women)
4) Politicians who don't want to address the fact that their policies have made the world extremely expensive and hostile to families and women, and so they instead choose to throw women under the bus for being sElFiSH and hating babies, and force them to have more babies (i.e. overturning Roe v. Wade). This one, depending on the politician, will also have strong tie-ins with #1 and #2.
I hope that clears it up a bit, and for anyone else reading, let me know if you think I missed anything!
This exactly. The fear is exacerbated especially bc west African countries have the youngest and fastest growing populations. This fear is driving the anti abortion movement.
my HVM - if he exists - will agree to be my boyfriend until we no longer want to be together an that's it. i'm not getting married full stop. i'm not moving in or having children. just a boyfriend with whom i'll spend time together a few times a week. i'm not falling for that trap called marriage. not worth it.
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Unknown member
Sep 11, 2022
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I agree. As a child-free woman in the 21st , the traditional marriage structure is irrelevant (obsolete?). I prefer to be my own independant person, and then to fit a HVM into my life rather than to fit my life around him.
I agree with this stance as well. I don't think anyone in this thread is denying a man spoiling us and providing in other ways. I'm seeing someone now who happily spends on me & helps me when I need without hesitation. I never think about the "catch" behind his motives or feel I have to go 50/50 to relieve his burden. He checks off the boxes of a provider. My personal view of independence is simply having my own place and being [financially] in control of it. Nobody put me there but me. I'm not expecting him to pay all my household bills but if he offers money towards anything then I won't reject that. It's a win win.
As someone who watched their mother be financially abused by her second husband to the point where we almost lost our house (separate households), I understand 100% the trauma & hesitation of depending on a man when it comes to your livelihood. Regardless, that experience hasn't stop me from being spoiled and provided for in other realms. Just let me have my own place and he has his.
Unknown member
Sep 12, 2022
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I agree. A user on the subreddit once wrote that “quality men are aching for a challenge”. That really stuck with me because they are! I think that being with me enhances my fiancés life so much. He is motivated now to succeed and achieve the best life for BOTH of us.
I’m really curious about JP’s daughter’s divorce (he obviously is patriarchally ashamed of or something since it's likely contrary to his just-so stories & BS mother-blaming narratives) -- and especially what the FDS lessons from this would be.
Men are ones who don't wanna get married and commit like real men! They just wanna slut around, be promiscuous whores and pump & dump women...men don't want to be providers & protectors, they don't want to be responsible fathers (deadbeat dads creating single mothers) Women don't want marriage because there's no man worth marrying, most men are abusive trash whores. But you won't see the MRA scrotes like Peterson mentioning any of that, they will just focus on blaming women and pointing fingers at single mothers as usual, which is not surprising, it's a typical male behavior to avoid accountability and throw the blame on women...and we have witnessed this happen over and over again since the beginning of humanity...blaming Eve for the downfall of humanity from the heavens...blaming women for rape & sexual harassment, blaming women for the deadbeat scrotes who leave their children, blaming women for men's emotional nature...etc
Scrotes are gonna scrote.
Also, the human population is GROWING. Whenever the topic of falling birth rates comes up, we ALWAYS need to point out that the world human population is still GROWING. Men like Jordan Peterson and Elon Musk are bright enough (I know, I know...) to know that declining birth rates DOESN'T mean declining population. It just means that the population is growing a little slower than it was before.
These men are mad that women are only pumping out enough babies to grow the population 10bil by 2050, instead of 2030.
We can speculate why these scrotes want the population to grow out of control, but I'm more interested in why they're happy to spread misinformation about the world population allegedly declining.
my HVM - if he exists - will agree to be my boyfriend until we no longer want to be together an that's it. i'm not getting married full stop. i'm not moving in or having children. just a boyfriend with whom i'll spend time together a few times a week. i'm not falling for that trap called marriage. not worth it.
I’m really curious about JP’s daughter’s divorce (he obviously is patriarchally ashamed of or something since it's likely contrary to his just-so stories & BS mother-blaming narratives) -- and especially what the FDS lessons from this would be.