I am just posting because the podcast had something that really resonated with me. I was listening to the episode about femcels (I am behind on my podcasts), and the hosts were talking about how unattractive girls blame their looks for scrotes behaving like scrotes. But the reality is that even the most beautiful women get treated poorly and that men just behave badly no matter what. I struggle a lot with my body image, especially since I gained unwanted weight during COVID. I would blame how I look for how men were distant and flakey with me. But now I realize that this is just how men are. Most are untrustworthy and lack loyalty. It's not how I look. I am of course still working on looksmaxing but I understand that my looks we’re not to blame.
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Honestly best to look good so you feel good, healthy, energetic and confident for yourself. I have been pretty and skinny since my mothers genes kicked in in my late teens and it’s made me quite repulsed by men that only doggedly pursue pretty girls. A lot of lv men look for pretty girls to pump and dump, project their insecurities unto them, look for pretty girls to abuse for ego and social standing, and assume beautiful women are conniving jezebel bitches. Also, a horrible abusive man doesn’t suddenly undergo a personality change because he sees a pretty face. All aspects of their personality that make them lv scrotes remain intact. At best, they pretend for longer to gain sexual access before the mask drops, which makes it even more dangerous for the woman. For young girls who are strikingly beautiful, the worst position they can be in is poor and/or vulnerable, you will attract sharks, rich and poor, even women who want to punish you, because they’re finally in the position to.
When I was younger I would say "even Beyonce was cheated on". I remember when I was cheated on I just felt then it doesn't matter you could be as beautiful and talented and weathly as Bey and scrotes will still be scrotes.
I wrote a post about a friend of mine who isn't "atteactive" to scrotes at all and still found happiness in her life as well as A HVM.
Looks don't matter in the slightest. Scrotes gonna scrote. It's just a matter of how badly you let them treat you before you decide to block them.
I don't let others define my beauty, I do and I like what I see in the mirror and can attest that men behave badly with you if you're attractive or not to them just because they are scrotes.
I used to weigh over 400 lbs but also grew up expressing anger and snapping back at all bullies. I don’t know when I heard or read it, but the times I’ve said, I don’t need to change how I look; you need to change how you see” was quite empowering. I’ve also said, after being given unsolicited advice, NO, what I definitely don’t need is someone telling me what I need! Coupled with a death glare and stare, they withered visibly and couldn’t get away fast enough.
if there's something i've learned from interacting with men, observing how they behave with other women and knowing from other women about their experiences is that they'll always blame us for everything even though it is always their own fault.