I think we've all had moments where we were creeped out by old scrotes. But I'm curious if anyone here has been creeped out or made uncomfortable by a younger guy?
Most of the aggressive catcallers I've experienced have been younger guys - packs of teenage boys (or early 20s, idk, I can't really tell) literally following me around and shouting shit. Really gross.
When I was a teen my neighbour's kid would make sexual comments towards me constantly. He was maximum like10, likely younger. I can't imagine how warped little boys are now with how widespread porn is...
Ugh yes. There was this 19 year old boy that was after me (I was 26 at the time) and he would not leave me alone. He would follow me around like a puppy dog and constantly try to talk to me and ask me questions. At one point he asked my age and when I told him he was like "Ah I knew it. I could tell because you look so much more mature than girls my age" 🤢 It was obvious he was talking about my body
Such projection. I LOVE being post-menopausal; I am so not thirsty! In fact I was super relieved that after 25 my hormones stabilized and my brain matured, and I could actually think and control myself way better than my wild and crazy days. Glad I escaped ages 18-24 without a major STD, a pregnancy, or an abortion. Older women are the hardest to get with because we don’t need men and don’t mind saying so.
I worked at a landscaping business with all men when I was about 34-35. There was one guy who was barely 18 who would make comments about me beIng a milf. Theres all men there, it was under the table work I had taken on the side, so no sexual harassment protection.
i blew up at him one day saying “I could be your mom you gross little boy” after he asserted that I should have bought him a taco at lunch making sugar mama jokes because I had broken a 50 dollar bill at the taco stand by our job site. It was pretty damn gross.
he was the boss’ cousin and the boss was about 29 and had a weird thing for me too but all he did was complain about his wife and hit on me in creepy harassing ways As well. It was like a weird competition between them to pull an older woman I guess. I did not feel flattered by at all, it was more of a thing where they were fetishizing me. glad I only worked that job for a few months.
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Dec 21, 2022
Yes. I worked in a middle school and I was terrified of the boys. The way they talk about female staff members was disgusting.
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Dec 21, 2022
I was hit by a small schoolboy for (inadvertently) blocking his way on the school stairs. He might have been around 10 years old or younger. I was a fully grown woman😶. He ran away immediately, so I couldn't drag his ass to his teacher or discipline him in any way.
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Needless to say, he sure wouldn't have dared to do that to a man of my age. Also, I have been catcalled by teenage schoolboys (in their uniform) as a grown woman. I have no sympathy for little boys, they know exactly what they are doing.
A few male students. One wouldn’t make eye contact and would move glacially slowly in order to talk to other students around him. Turns out there may have been abuse at home. I’d bet he was forced to hold one position for way too long as a punishment. Another couple of students, both males, different schools and years, could have been budding sociopaths BUT it was middle school. Growing bodies and brains, mixed with hormones, are volatile. I’m just glad they moved through and onward. Not my problem anymore.
Remembering this still gives me the creepy crawlies in my skin, but I'll go ahead and respond. I was staying in all women's shelter and so of course, while men were definitely NOT allowed to be there, they can allow a woman's underaged sons since there's basically nowhere else to go. I knew of this one very kind woman who has two sons, aged no more than 13 at the time. I was in my late 20s.
They harassed me endlessly and made a lot of time in the shelter quite unpleasant. They would knock on my door over and over and OVER again before running away giggling. I'd never open the door, of course, but I did brought it up with their mother. Nothing changed, of course. So the knocking kept going.
One night I was taking a shower in the big bathroom where other showers were installed. I was the only one there. I heard footsteps and assumed it was some of the other younger ladies coming in for a late night cap before heading to bed. But it wasn't. It was the boys. And I remember freezing upon realizing this, and luckily the shower curtain hid me. But I kid you not, one of them said in a low voice "Have sex with me" before running off. Shock wouldn't have scratched the surface to how I felt at that moment. It was absolutely vile.
Other than that... younger men who are like in college or just barely out of it definitely tried something with me. Had one tried to do something when he's just some 21 year old trying to make it big on Soundcloud and YouTube with a rap music career. Told me I was absolutely gorgeous and asked if I got Snapchat. I'll admit, that was pretty funny and I had to laugh and tell him no. I can't take the little puppers seriously.
Yeahh. Sigh. Unfortunately I have known this boy since he was a baby. I’d change his diapers. He was like a lil brother to me. I recently was moving this summer and he was helping me, he’s always been happy to help and I thought it was sweet. We were alone in the back room packing up office supplies. He cornered me and made a sexual comment and I pushed him away from me, called him disgusting, reminded him that he’s a child and I’m an adult, and ran outside to tell my mom so she’d tell HIS mom cuz this boy is in hs. He should never have said such a thing to me. Like he’s 16. Still makes my skin crawl. My mom didn’t care. His mom didn’t care. I was told to calm down and get over it while he followed after me, smirking and chuckling. I haven’t seen him since and I don’t plan on ever seeing him again. Lil boys grow up to be men and become sickos. Breaks my heart.
Often. I am petite with brown Asian skin, so I guess they don't realize I'm older. That said, I can think of three instances in particular: one was at a shoe repair place and his boss had to hold him back, he was so hyper on seeing me. Another was this super-short dude, shorter than me (I'm 5'1") and he looked at me like, "Kaching! Target Spotted!" Urgh. A third was this young guy working at a store who just negged nonstop. I walked out.
Have you seen those TikTok videos where a girl ignores young men in GTA? (Online game) It's ridiculous. They can't handle that they get ignored so they call the girl slurs and beat her in that game. The proof that most of them want to do that in real life. Men are abusers.
Most of the aggressive catcallers I've experienced have been younger guys - packs of teenage boys (or early 20s, idk, I can't really tell) literally following me around and shouting shit. Really gross.
When I was a teen my neighbour's kid would make sexual comments towards me constantly. He was maximum like10, likely younger. I can't imagine how warped little boys are now with how widespread porn is...
Ugh yes. There was this 19 year old boy that was after me (I was 26 at the time) and he would not leave me alone. He would follow me around like a puppy dog and constantly try to talk to me and ask me questions. At one point he asked my age and when I told him he was like "Ah I knew it. I could tell because you look so much more mature than girls my age" 🤢 It was obvious he was talking about my body
YES! They have been so creepy. Like they project that older women are easy because they're thirsty? Or they're looking for a suga momma? It's so ew.
I worked at a landscaping business with all men when I was about 34-35. There was one guy who was barely 18 who would make comments about me beIng a milf. Theres all men there, it was under the table work I had taken on the side, so no sexual harassment protection.
i blew up at him one day saying “I could be your mom you gross little boy” after he asserted that I should have bought him a taco at lunch making sugar mama jokes because I had broken a 50 dollar bill at the taco stand by our job site. It was pretty damn gross.
he was the boss’ cousin and the boss was about 29 and had a weird thing for me too but all he did was complain about his wife and hit on me in creepy harassing ways As well. It was like a weird competition between them to pull an older woman I guess. I did not feel flattered by at all, it was more of a thing where they were fetishizing me. glad I only worked that job for a few months.
Yes. I worked in a middle school and I was terrified of the boys. The way they talk about female staff members was disgusting.
I was hit by a small schoolboy for (inadvertently) blocking his way on the school stairs. He might have been around 10 years old or younger. I was a fully grown woman😶. He ran away immediately, so I couldn't drag his ass to his teacher or discipline him in any way.
A few male students. One wouldn’t make eye contact and would move glacially slowly in order to talk to other students around him. Turns out there may have been abuse at home. I’d bet he was forced to hold one position for way too long as a punishment. Another couple of students, both males, different schools and years, could have been budding sociopaths BUT it was middle school. Growing bodies and brains, mixed with hormones, are volatile. I’m just glad they moved through and onward. Not my problem anymore.
Remembering this still gives me the creepy crawlies in my skin, but I'll go ahead and respond. I was staying in all women's shelter and so of course, while men were definitely NOT allowed to be there, they can allow a woman's underaged sons since there's basically nowhere else to go. I knew of this one very kind woman who has two sons, aged no more than 13 at the time. I was in my late 20s.
They harassed me endlessly and made a lot of time in the shelter quite unpleasant. They would knock on my door over and over and OVER again before running away giggling. I'd never open the door, of course, but I did brought it up with their mother. Nothing changed, of course. So the knocking kept going.
One night I was taking a shower in the big bathroom where other showers were installed. I was the only one there. I heard footsteps and assumed it was some of the other younger ladies coming in for a late night cap before heading to bed. But it wasn't. It was the boys. And I remember freezing upon realizing this, and luckily the shower curtain hid me. But I kid you not, one of them said in a low voice "Have sex with me" before running off. Shock wouldn't have scratched the surface to how I felt at that moment. It was absolutely vile.
Other than that... younger men who are like in college or just barely out of it definitely tried something with me. Had one tried to do something when he's just some 21 year old trying to make it big on Soundcloud and YouTube with a rap music career. Told me I was absolutely gorgeous and asked if I got Snapchat. I'll admit, that was pretty funny and I had to laugh and tell him no. I can't take the little puppers seriously.
Yeahh. Sigh. Unfortunately I have known this boy since he was a baby. I’d change his diapers. He was like a lil brother to me. I recently was moving this summer and he was helping me, he’s always been happy to help and I thought it was sweet. We were alone in the back room packing up office supplies. He cornered me and made a sexual comment and I pushed him away from me, called him disgusting, reminded him that he’s a child and I’m an adult, and ran outside to tell my mom so she’d tell HIS mom cuz this boy is in hs. He should never have said such a thing to me. Like he’s 16. Still makes my skin crawl. My mom didn’t care. His mom didn’t care. I was told to calm down and get over it while he followed after me, smirking and chuckling. I haven’t seen him since and I don’t plan on ever seeing him again. Lil boys grow up to be men and become sickos. Breaks my heart.
Often. I am petite with brown Asian skin, so I guess they don't realize I'm older. That said, I can think of three instances in particular: one was at a shoe repair place and his boss had to hold him back, he was so hyper on seeing me. Another was this super-short dude, shorter than me (I'm 5'1") and he looked at me like, "Kaching! Target Spotted!" Urgh. A third was this young guy working at a store who just negged nonstop. I walked out.
Have you seen those TikTok videos where a girl ignores young men in GTA? (Online game) It's ridiculous. They can't handle that they get ignored so they call the girl slurs and beat her in that game. The proof that most of them want to do that in real life. Men are abusers.