Remember when you were in high school and your boyfriend gave you a necklace with his initial on it? You thought it was so cute and you were so happy about it. Then one day you decided to break up with him and gave him the necklace back. A few months later you see him with his new girlfriend wearing the same necklace with his initial on it. You feel hurt and wonder: "I thought I was special to him."
Well, that's just typically LVM behavior. LVM will gift you jewelry with his initial or his name on it. It doesn't mean that he is committed to you. This type of jewelry is basically a dog collar. He doesn't think you are your own person. He thinks you are HIS person.
Think about it, men would never wear this type of jewelry because they don't want to be "owned" and they don't want other men to make fun of him for wearing a dog collar.
Don't fall for LVM tactics.
Ew. Good call. Yeah, that's posessive behavior. Reminds of men who always seem to have their hands on their girlfriend (especially her ass). Like, ok, we get it bro, you own her, she is your property, no one is trying to steal your female from you.
yep, it's a generic gift. never accept gifts that look like zero thought was put into it.
I had one BF that got us necklaces with our names written on them, but gave me the one with my name on it. I tried to explain that you were supposed to wear the other person's name and I don't think he understood 😂
When we broke up I destroyed the necklace. It was cheaply made, anyway, since I managed to break the chain after a few uses. I mean like... this isn't a gift shop keychain. Why would I wear a necklace with my own name on it?
Also, most men don't own a lot of jewelry, so you bet I saw him keep and still wear his shitty little dogtag on his snap stories. It's honestly funny thinking back on it haha.