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Do you think vetting is enough to avoid this situation?

I feel like no matter how much we vet, it is never enough to stop ending up with scrotes.

How can we "vet away" the type of men "shapeshift" so quickly? Especially after being locked down in a relationship/getting married?

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Not Today

Nov 04

There's no guarantees in life, period. This is the pragmatic approach to everything and you can't live in fear of making mistakes because we all will make them. Make the best decision you can with the knowledge you have, and if it turns out to be a bad one, you can always make a new one.

All you can do is prepare for the worst which is easier said that done. But fearing what may be is wasted energy.

Unknown member

Nov 07

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>Like are you really on a dating strategy website just to hate on & fear men?

the fact that i don't trust men enough to date them isn't hateful. the 'defeatism' is a result of trauma caused by them.

i'm not here for the dating strategy, i'm here to learn about leveling up, to be part of an exclusively female community online and to share. and to warn women about the dangers of dating - because dating is dangerous for us, unfortunately.

it's ok if you don't agree with me, though.

Do you think vetting is enough to avoid this situation?

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