Do you remember the sex strikes?

It's so sad that women have to spend so much time and energy playing offense to try an corral men into behaving like decent human beings. I'm so turned off by the whole dynamic I don't even care to try and be with one at this point. If they have to be incentivized (ie: threat of no access to sex) to not act like total shit bags, then they're still shit bags only behaving better for their own gain, not because they actually care about women.

For me personally sex is a sacrifice to have, i mean for every woman there is still the risk of pregnancy and stds anyway that men apparently Just don’t care/aren’t affected by the threat of those consequences as much.

before I have thoroughly explained how to pleasure me which I need to know someone really well in order to even feel comfortable explaining my instructions to.

i always kinda wished I could be a man for a bit to understand what the hell is so magical about sex for them that they are willing to go to such lengths of manipulation and lack of empathy and wiling to put a fellow human being at such risk to get it. it must feel better than any drug to them.

I mean Jesus I have lived in neighborhoods of meth addicts and the depraved things they do to keep their drug supply is on par, as far as desparation goes, to how men fuck over women for sex.

Soapbox time:

This is me on a regular basis so it's not like it's a new concept. I am pro-choice and pro-sex strike until a man shows me he is worth the steep risk and has invested in me and the relationship. Period. Remember - dick is plentiful and mostly low-quality. You don't owe a man sex regardless if he buys you dinner or whatever. No dinner is worth the risk of STD's and a pregnancy you can't abort, changing your body permanently and destroying the life path you may have chosen (since the US does not have any child-care or social programs that are worth a damn, not to mention any reasonable health care or maternal leave). No date is worth years of caring for children you didn't want with a man you dated a couple of times, who slacks off if he's with you and doesn't pay child support if he isn't. No guy is worth dying from an ectopic pregnancy or other complications because you live in a state where abortion is banned even in the event of a risk to your life. No man is worth a miscarriage that the state decided was actually a willful abortion, placing you in prison for "murder". It is SUCH a massive risk and liberal feminism sold women a lie that we could just fuck around like men do with no consequences. It's a lie that has only benefited men. I am a radfem in that I don't think sex is inherently bad or anything, but that it has to be weighed against risk when engaging in sex with men. It's nearly always risky to do. You have to be sure of the man. And even then it's not truly a safe thing. It is enjoyable and quite natural. But that doesn't make it helpful for women in our world. Our genes want to be passed on. That's all sex ultimately is for. Sure, we should do it for fun when possible. But like any other pleasure on this planet, it's risky and can have poor results.

So. Get quality sex toys and go to town on them. You're guaranteed more orgasms anyway. 🙃 FDS forever.