Since when are men good at “keeping their emotions under control”?? 🙄 They are good at finding self-sacrificing pickmes who will listen to them whine and trauma-dump.
Men are the most emotional and dramatic species out there 🤣🤣🤣 I seriously laugh at these posts of men calling women dramatic, sensitive or emotional when they are the most screwed up ones
I disagree that men created roster dating, what they created was sex options. They also don’t keep their emotions in control as everyone else has stated and I don’t think women necessarily naturally believed that dating the same way would make them whores, it was them being brainwashed and bashed over the head with that concept by family and society. Even if they felt that they would like to date around, they were constantly shamed out of attempting it.
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They can keep their emotions in control but not their dicks...funny how that works. 🤡
Also just because they are emotionally unavailable whores, does NOT mean they are in control of their emotions. And the fact that they let their dicks lead them means they are not really in control.
I follow a feminine embodiment coach who talks about having a "dating funnel" i.e. always dating 3 men at once until one of them commits. I am all for this.
However - I cant seem to lower my standards enough to do it. I dont even want to go out with 1 guy - let alone 3. We all have tons of options as women- but what do we do when all our options are low value? I've done a ton of spiritual and personal work on myself and feel like I deserve men that value my time. However the guys on OLD just don't show that they can. Id rather sit on my couch alone on a Friday night and binge watch 90 day fiance and eat pizza than go out with a guy who I dont feel is up to my standards. I feel like the problem with a woman's dating funnel is that we have to say yes to everything and everyone. I am 100% not comftorable doing this.
Can my perfect man (for me) just show up on my doorstep without me having wade through the trash that is OLD?
Completely agree. It's such a drag and this alone is making me feel so disempowered at the moment. There are so few appealing men with redeeming traits out there that I feel like the small percentage that do have any at all know that women will get attached to them and they can exploit this to the fullest and end up having the upper hand.
If a guy has any redeeming traits and then uses them to exploit women than that in itself cancels out his redeeming traits.
A good man will not make you feel like he has an upper hand. I believe there are plenty of good, attractive men out there who will want nothing but a peaceful experience with us. Give me 3 of those for a dating funnel and ill be good! I feel like I just need a little more patience to find them in the Sea of Trash that is online dating. Just quit tinder yesterday by the way and I'm already getting a higher volume of better matches on Hinge.
Agreed. I rarely find 1 man to meet my standards. Luckily, this is about strategy. My strategy is that if it’s meant to be a hvm will meet me and be too busy to want to court multiple women. HVM are rare but there are men who see value in pursuing just 1 woman.
But I also don’t do online dating. I think men on old are more likely to have a rotation. I’m hoping to meet a man through my social network or seeing the same man at activities. I don’t even want to date anymore or cute meet men at the grocery store.🤷🏽♀️
Always use “them” on them! Their actions, their words, their energy. Return equally. It will instantly expose unfairness, double standards, lack of empathy. Don’t like it? Level up, be nicer. Be kinder. Or else you’re sub-human and not worthy of consideration.
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Since when are men good at “keeping their emotions under control”?? 🙄 They are good at finding self-sacrificing pickmes who will listen to them whine and trauma-dump.
Men have more options because there are more quality women than quality men
and i can tell from experience than men dont control their emotions, they are aggressive af when you dont comply to their ridiculous demands
Men are the most emotional and dramatic species out there 🤣🤣🤣 I seriously laugh at these posts of men calling women dramatic, sensitive or emotional when they are the most screwed up ones
I disagree that men created roster dating, what they created was sex options. They also don’t keep their emotions in control as everyone else has stated and I don’t think women necessarily naturally believed that dating the same way would make them whores, it was them being brainwashed and bashed over the head with that concept by family and society. Even if they felt that they would like to date around, they were constantly shamed out of attempting it.
They can keep their emotions in control but not their dicks...funny how that works. 🤡
Also just because they are emotionally unavailable whores, does NOT mean they are in control of their emotions. And the fact that they let their dicks lead them means they are not really in control.
I follow a feminine embodiment coach who talks about having a "dating funnel" i.e. always dating 3 men at once until one of them commits. I am all for this.
However - I cant seem to lower my standards enough to do it. I dont even want to go out with 1 guy - let alone 3. We all have tons of options as women- but what do we do when all our options are low value? I've done a ton of spiritual and personal work on myself and feel like I deserve men that value my time. However the guys on OLD just don't show that they can. Id rather sit on my couch alone on a Friday night and binge watch 90 day fiance and eat pizza than go out with a guy who I dont feel is up to my standards. I feel like the problem with a woman's dating funnel is that we have to say yes to everything and everyone. I am 100% not comftorable doing this.
Can my perfect man (for me) just show up on my doorstep without me having wade through the trash that is OLD?
Always use “them” on them! Their actions, their words, their energy. Return equally. It will instantly expose unfairness, double standards, lack of empathy. Don’t like it? Level up, be nicer. Be kinder. Or else you’re sub-human and not worthy of consideration.