Men don’t know how to respect women because they don’t even respect themselves. If they have respect and dignity they wouldn’t be acting like they do. If anyone pushes your boundaries, block and delete queen 😉
That would be assuming men understand the concept of boundaries bc they would look at you as a whole human being and as a whole.... They don't. So draw your boundaries with reinforced concrete steel with flamethrowers on top so they can slam into that mf. Some will be persistent and try to reach 👀, I mean climb, but that's what the flame throwers are for.Remember nothing stops a man faster than having to put in effort for something, so just let them run head first into those for awhile and they'll leave 😂
I'm sure they do when they're older but when they're younger, they literally never have to think about their boundaries bc they're automatically respected in most social situations. So I liked to switch it up disrespectfully 🌚🌝
This is putting the responsibility on women to work to "be respectable" by a guy who would apparently treat her like shit if he could. If you stick around with this type of guy, he will just keep working to break you down. No point trying to win his respect, just leave him be and move on to better things.
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Or pretend to respect you and say you’re “not like other girls” while continuing to disrespect other women in front of you. You’d feel temporarily superior at best, and then he’d find ways to push boundaries when your guard is down.
I’ve known men who keep pushing boundaries no matter what. The only boundary enforcement you can do with those NVM, and they’re no value if they don’t respect your boundaries, is block and delete.
Men who don't respect women won't respect your boundaries. Boundaries are for you to follow and enforce. Even the most respectable woman can be subjected to men who don't respect her. If a man is testing you at every moment, he's inherently disrespectful and is an opportunist just waiting for the moment he can pounce on you. Kinda reminds me of these crocodiles this guy Chris that I follow has. He had a breeding pair of crocodiles for 15 years, and one day the female had a seizure in the water. The male crocodile immediately started to eat her--death rolling chunks of meat off of her body as she seized. He was just waiting for her to show any sort of weakness. And many human males are the exact same way.
Asserting boundaries doesn’t mean people will honor them but with time you stop taking boundary pushing behavior personally. You recognize that many people are disrespecful aholes.🤣
Eg, a man asks “How old are you?” I say, “That’s a rude question.” He says “Gee, you are sensitive.” Old me might have questioned, gosh am I being too sensitive. Now me recognizes that No is a complete sentence and that I’ve always regretted the time I have spent with people who don’t get that…
Not sure if I'd even want a man who'd be constantly testing my boundaries, he sounds like a kid. This is just pick me crap with a strange coat of paint. AKA a useless time sink.
Idk if I have to enforce my boundaries more than once I'm out of there. Once is at least a yellow flag, probably red (depending on the boundary). Two or three times and he's clearly a menace to society and not my problem. It sounds exhausting, I'm not qualified to housebreak boys.
I do not think they will respect you more. It's more along the lines of "I cannot get her riled up. Maybe another woman/girl will" and they'll move on. If only we could get a critical mass of women/girls who can do that but there is no such thing as a utopian world. Oh, I can only dream!
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Men don’t know how to respect women because they don’t even respect themselves. If they have respect and dignity they wouldn’t be acting like they do. If anyone pushes your boundaries, block and delete queen 😉
That would be assuming men understand the concept of boundaries bc they would look at you as a whole human being and as a whole.... They don't. So draw your boundaries with reinforced concrete steel with flamethrowers on top so they can slam into that mf. Some will be persistent and try to reach 👀, I mean climb, but that's what the flame throwers are for. Remember nothing stops a man faster than having to put in effort for something, so just let them run head first into those for awhile and they'll leave 😂
This is putting the responsibility on women to work to "be respectable" by a guy who would apparently treat her like shit if he could. If you stick around with this type of guy, he will just keep working to break you down. No point trying to win his respect, just leave him be and move on to better things.
I don’t give a shit about him respecting me more. Pushing my boundaries is LV and I don’t care what LV men think.
I’ve known men who keep pushing boundaries no matter what. The only boundary enforcement you can do with those NVM, and they’re no value if they don’t respect your boundaries, is block and delete.
Men who don't respect women won't respect your boundaries. Boundaries are for you to follow and enforce. Even the most respectable woman can be subjected to men who don't respect her. If a man is testing you at every moment, he's inherently disrespectful and is an opportunist just waiting for the moment he can pounce on you. Kinda reminds me of these crocodiles this guy Chris that I follow has. He had a breeding pair of crocodiles for 15 years, and one day the female had a seizure in the water. The male crocodile immediately started to eat her--death rolling chunks of meat off of her body as she seized. He was just waiting for her to show any sort of weakness. And many human males are the exact same way.
Not sure if I'd even want a man who'd be constantly testing my boundaries, he sounds like a kid. This is just pick me crap with a strange coat of paint. AKA a useless time sink.
Tiring, tiresome, immature, manipulative. Don’t pardon me as I ghost and get back my peace.
Short answer : No, they don’t.
Another depressing message about having to strategise to not be treated like sh*
How is this even worth it
Idk if I have to enforce my boundaries more than once I'm out of there. Once is at least a yellow flag, probably red (depending on the boundary). Two or three times and he's clearly a menace to society and not my problem. It sounds exhausting, I'm not qualified to housebreak boys.
We don't care about LVM's respect.
I do not think they will respect you more. It's more along the lines of "I cannot get her riled up. Maybe another woman/girl will" and they'll move on. If only we could get a critical mass of women/girls who can do that but there is no such thing as a utopian world. Oh, I can only dream!