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I have a mild dilemma over this, because I really don’t believe that having a man means anything lol, but pick mes and cool girls think having a man, often any old LV scrote means EVERYTHING!
Therefore I think the gloves should come off IF ANY pick me or a cool girl is trying to actually drag you about something . If she's starting to make it personal. Small subject, large, serious, minor. If she is single, or with a LVM, and you are in a relationship with an (obviously vetted) man you can (verbally) end her with eight words: “Yeah, but I bet I got a good man tho.”
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Is it okay with you in said circumstances to go there and say this? Do you consider this, somehow "beneath" you?
I’m going to be brutally honest and say something many women may disagree with. And that’s cool. This is just my opinion. You know how we say “you deserve better” to some women experiencing something shitty (obvs not abuse, no one deserves that)? Well I disagree with that notion. I don’t think every woman “deserves better”. I think people who are making an effort to better themselves and their lives deserve better, but not lazy assholes refusing to do the internal work relying on everyone else’s emotional labour who think they’re entitled to better. And yes, that includes women. Radical feminist I may be, but I’m not a blind supporter of every woman.
Any woman who throws other women under the bus deserves exactly what she gets. Yeah, that’s ruthless, but I have no sympathy for the pick me’s who stand by their rapist, abusive, misogynist male friends, family, partners, and minimise the behaviour or blame the female victims for it.
Those women deserve exactly what they get. I have no sympathy for the Ghislaine Maxwell’s of the world because they are grown ass adults who are responsible for their choices and actions, patriarchal socialisation be damned. If we women here can do the internal work, then so can they. But they don’t because doing the internal work is hard. It takes effort and consistency. That’s just too much when it’s easier to play dumb and enjoy the falsely curated image of their life. They can have the exact type of man they deserve.
Don’t let the pick me’s comments get to you sis, don’t react to them at all. Smile at them and remind yourself that their punishment is the life they are currently living. They have the man that they deserve. If you really have to clap back at them, just calmly and sweetly say that out loud. “I don’t need to say any nasty comments to put you down, your life is punishment enough. Have the day you deserve.”
I just always say, "I'd rather be rich and alone and not paying for dick like you are." Then I laugh at her, because she's pathetic. I'd never pay for dick. Ever. Pick mes are paying some dude to f*ck and hang out with them. LOL. Then the men who want me to be a pick me, and who say, "That's why you're single," I reply with, "I'm single because I've only met guys like you, and I wouldn't put up with 1 minute of your bullshit." I actually told that to my own father. I do not mince words or play the, "You're less because you're not kissing a man's arse" game.
I had a conversation with a dear pickme friend recently and had to tell her that she deserves a man who will put her first, not just a bit of fun on the side.
She deserves someone who is intelligent and hard working and who is focused on her, not waste her time on a dud(e) who is broken down and uneducated and doesn’t want to change his life or look after his health.
I wouldn't
The second that (vetted) male starts doing male things and disappointing you- guess what she gonna say, just guess 🤣🤣
Omg I told a pickme friend of mine that she deserved better than her bf, and she instantly attacked me, called me ignorant, then didn't talk to me for 3 months rofl