Yep. So many “identifying” as incels. Scrotes aren’t incels because they can’t get women. Scrotes are incels because they’re too lazy and socially maladapted to bother being anything else.
I'm so bored of the excuses we allow men and I mean both men and women when I say 'we'. Yes society is still lagging in raising boys and girls with equal standards but to say that is normal for men of that age is giving them a pass. It isn't normal. It isn't lack of self awareness. It's a choice. They choose to be the selfish disgusting assholes that they are. The only reason these situations are exacerbated is because of the self-esteem that is systematically stripped from girls from birth.
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I also have the sneaking suspicion that true incels also have some form of antisocial disorder. They behave like pigs around women and have zero social graces. Just all around anarchists when it comes to having some form of respect.
For example, whining about sImPiNg or paying for a date, or even planning a date. The best example for their antisocial behavior is the demand for nudes and sex, before even meeting. This is a ridiculous request and proves that they stay on the fringes of society, because that isn’t really normal or acceptable behavior.
A lot of these incels need to be honest (lol) with themselves and go to a therapist, who will inevitably diagnose them with antisocial personality disorder. But they won’t because that requires working on themselves and not blaming women.
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One of the ladies on the FDS podcast said that she believes that incels are actually Covert Narcissists, and I am 100% in agreement. It's kind of aggravating that some pop therapists such as Dr Kirk Honda (just an example) deny that anyone could have encountered a narcissist and will quote the statistic, nevermind that narcissists R A R E L Y seek treatment or would be at all honest (for example, my possibly covert narc ex husband and my mother know EXACTLY the right things to say to outsiders, even professionals who should know better, to get away with an incredible amount of neglect and abuse).But yet, you can go down the checklist for Overt Narcissistic traits and find red pill men/MGTOW, and Covert Narcissism in incels. Men in general are just absolutely riddled with narcissm but we wrap it up in trite little excuses like "men are never taught to express their feeeeelllings 🥺🥺😢". Ask the poor women who partner with them about the "feelings" these men express, they have no problem with that; it's just hate, rage, blame, and entitlement, and sex addiction. I am absolutely infuriated as to the extent all cultures bury their heads in the sand about male behavior and psychology, then blame women when we believe the narrative and trust men and take what they say at face value.
I’m a childfree older woman and retiree. I’m wondering what goes wrong and when? I want input from parents and others. As a middle school teacher, I saw that the door to toxic masculinity opens then if not sooner; the urge to fit in with a peer group and branch out from the family is in full play. Kids don't have the wisdom, experience, or brain development to know much although I know if a kid is raised with ethics and morals, they may not have the vocabulary to know why something is wrong, but they can say no, this isn't right. There are always choices.
My family is from Slovakia, and my great grandfather and grandmother were married at ages 13 and 12, respectively. My great grandfather was ALREADY a man capable of providing for a wife and a child at age 13. Then my grandparents came here, and they got married at ages 20 (male) and 19 (female). My mother born in 1940 didn't get married until age 35 to my 28 year old father, and my sister and I have both been married to losers and have never had children, and we're both in our 40s. Look at the trajectory of how the maturity and values of people, especially men, have eroded. Once you hit puberty in the early 1900s, you were supposed to act like a real man. Nowadays, guys are 50 and don't know how to support and family and act like a man. We live in a state of suspended adolescence where men are Peter Pans for their entire lives leaving a wake of damaged women and children behind them. The social programmers at the Tavistock Institute are probably quite proud of their achievements.
Nancy and Zanab being 5-6 years older than Bartise and Cole highlighted their immaturity even more.
Yeah, the guys suck but their behavior is pretty typical for their age group and when they’ve had younger women on the show they act similarly immature - like in The Ultimatum.
And tbh, I find both the women a little pathetic not recognizing that at 30+ and letting these men emotionally devastate them like that
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Yep. So many “identifying” as incels. Scrotes aren’t incels because they can’t get women. Scrotes are incels because they’re too lazy and socially maladapted to bother being anything else.
I luckily don't care🥰
I'm so bored of the excuses we allow men and I mean both men and women when I say 'we'. Yes society is still lagging in raising boys and girls with equal standards but to say that is normal for men of that age is giving them a pass. It isn't normal. It isn't lack of self awareness. It's a choice. They choose to be the selfish disgusting assholes that they are. The only reason these situations are exacerbated is because of the self-esteem that is systematically stripped from girls from birth.
I also have the sneaking suspicion that true incels also have some form of antisocial disorder. They behave like pigs around women and have zero social graces. Just all around anarchists when it comes to having some form of respect.
For example, whining about sImPiNg or paying for a date, or even planning a date. The best example for their antisocial behavior is the demand for nudes and sex, before even meeting. This is a ridiculous request and proves that they stay on the fringes of society, because that isn’t really normal or acceptable behavior.
A lot of these incels need to be honest (lol) with themselves and go to a therapist, who will inevitably diagnose them with antisocial personality disorder. But they won’t because that requires working on themselves and not blaming women.
The more they rage and are whining about being lonely while doing everything they can to strip us of human rights, the more I don't care. Die mad.
I’m a childfree older woman and retiree. I’m wondering what goes wrong and when? I want input from parents and others. As a middle school teacher, I saw that the door to toxic masculinity opens then if not sooner; the urge to fit in with a peer group and branch out from the family is in full play. Kids don't have the wisdom, experience, or brain development to know much although I know if a kid is raised with ethics and morals, they may not have the vocabulary to know why something is wrong, but they can say no, this isn't right. There are always choices.
My family is from Slovakia, and my great grandfather and grandmother were married at ages 13 and 12, respectively. My great grandfather was ALREADY a man capable of providing for a wife and a child at age 13. Then my grandparents came here, and they got married at ages 20 (male) and 19 (female). My mother born in 1940 didn't get married until age 35 to my 28 year old father, and my sister and I have both been married to losers and have never had children, and we're both in our 40s. Look at the trajectory of how the maturity and values of people, especially men, have eroded. Once you hit puberty in the early 1900s, you were supposed to act like a real man. Nowadays, guys are 50 and don't know how to support and family and act like a man. We live in a state of suspended adolescence where men are Peter Pans for their entire lives leaving a wake of damaged women and children behind them. The social programmers at the Tavistock Institute are probably quite proud of their achievements.
Nancy and Zanab being 5-6 years older than Bartise and Cole highlighted their immaturity even more.
Yeah, the guys suck but their behavior is pretty typical for their age group and when they’ve had younger women on the show they act similarly immature - like in The Ultimatum.
And tbh, I find both the women a little pathetic not recognizing that at 30+ and letting these men emotionally devastate them like that