At work I saw a married woman talking to a single young man who told us that he wants a girlfriend. She told him that a “very skinny and flat chested” girl his age came by and asked if he was at work. She contorted her body and waved her hands in front of her chest ”She looked like this!” I felt disgusted by her and said, “You really aren‘t trying to be a wingman, are you?”
She is older than him and she is married. She is sabotaging toward women who aren’t superiors and acts friendly with this teenage coworker. Since she is married and not pursuing romance with him, what is her motivation to act this way?
Putting younger women down is one of the fav activities of many unhappily married older women. Instead of helping and guiding girls, these women take out all their frustrations on the young ones because they wish they didn't waste their 20's or 30's with lv men, and appealing to younger men gives them the validation they're so desperately craving. I've been called fat and ugly many times by senior women since I was 12 and just me existing was a good enough reason for them to be nasty
her marriage sucks and she's trying to make herself feel better for staying by appealing to random single young men.
Hatred of women
She wanted to make herself look better than the teenage girl. It's weird that a married woman is so interested in a teenage coworker's dating life. Maybe she is secretly interested in him?
I was "skinny and flat chested" (well, still am kind of lol) growing up and women would regularly act like this about me. This woman is insecure about her own body, for whatever reason, and she wants this guy to validate those feelings at the girl's expense.
Who knows though, maybe her husband watches creepy porn and she's taking it out on random women that fit what he watches?
Wow. So she's being a dick towards the teenage girl and a creep towards a teenage boy at the same time. How can you crave validation from a literal teenage boy?
“At work” - be careful around these 2. I’d assume if they’re not in an affair currently, they recently were or will be. Watch your boundaries and keep putting your own best interests first at work.
Maybe she thinks he’s only single because he has too high of standards and is trying to tell him that he can’t get a woman with big boobs.