This woman is beautiful, thin, close to her family, and ambitious to make it in the USA.
The guy looks like a potato.
While the accusations against him are still alleged, it appears that he was stealing thousands of dollars from her bank account and he is behaving very suspiciously in her disappearance.
Lesson learned:
The ugly guy is not more appreciative of your presence. It's a scrote myth that ugly guys are nicer and more appreciative. In fact, I think a lot of them are bitter and want revenge against beautiful women because they carry rejection like a chip on their shoulder. Even if the rejection was over 20 years ago in high school, they still carry that anger and resentment with them. So many women get this advice and end up hurt or in a shit situation from a "nice ugly guy".
Yep. Stay away from ugly men.
Men who are ugly have no light within them that would shine through and actually make them attractive. They are dead-eyed, resentful, entitled, lack emotional intelligence, and bitter. Ugly glimmers within, and comes to the surface.
A man with unconventional or less fortunate looks, but that still has a good personality, good style, good grooming, interesting hobbies, intelligence, good social skills, humor, and good conversational skills will never be ugly. They will be attractive to others, be able to have a relationship, and not go through life hating on beautiful women.
Grotesque miscreants like this creep will never be attractive to anyone. Ugly on the inside and ugly on the outside.
Ugly guys are the worst - entitled, creepy criminal minds. Out loud it seems prejudicial but men need to realise that rejection is part of life. We’ve all been dinged for truly life altering events like promotions (because of the patriarchy) but for some reason women don’t have these violent reactions en masse to misfortune. We master our lesson and move forward or internalise our pain. Thank you for this.
I genuinely believe that uglyness comes out, just like beauty and kindness comes out of a person. This man obviously took bad care of his health and body, he looks greasy and unkempt. His eyes look dead and soulless. These are all things he has done to himself and it reflects the type of person he is inside. Just looking at his photo gives me a severe ick feeling. It's nature telling women - 'beware'. Men like this hate women, they are resentful and want to hurt us. It's so important that you listen to your gut and avoid these men. Patriarchal brainwashing like the scarcity mindset, 'give the uggles a chance' rhetoric and 'the wall' nonsense encourages women to ignore their gut, forget their boundaries and accept less. This can be the result. I feel so bad for this woman's family, I hope they find out what happened to her.
What also scares me about this is that many black women now want to expand their horizons beyond the racial limits of what they’ve been taught they’re allowed (which is great ) but the vetting skills may produce no better than if they stuck to dating with the community.
I can’t even tell if a man is ugly or not because even the hottest ones aren’t as attractive as an average woman physically. I can count on one hand the amount of times I saw a guy in public and thought he was attractive enough to let my gaze linger or mentally acknowledge it. Usually they have to do or say something I think is cool or intriguing or high value and that’s when certain ones stop being invisible to me. It doesn’t help that I have friends who I consider way way way more beautiful than me and I look at their partner and I think “wow I would not bang him. This is sad. If that’s the best this amazing woman can do then I’m gonna eat a bag of Doritos if I feel like it because being a model didn’t help her access a top tier man”. Is there a chart for men like the one that redpill made for women where it’s 1-10 with examples? If you find yourself thinking “he’s not attractive to me but I love his intelligence/humor/money etc you don’t need any tarot cards to know it definitely won’t work out. That’s never a way to start a relationship.
You know they’ve really done a number on us with grooming and conditioning when the poor woman looked at that creature up there and didn’t immediately notice the soul-death in those beady little eyes. Fucking hateful serial killer written all over him.
Men are scary, whether they’re ugly or handsome. Ted Bundy was known to be good looking and charming. I guess the bottom line is: be wary of ANY man. In a pile of snakes, you don’t know which ones are poisonous, so be careful around ALL of them.