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They're attractive, they've had several girlfriends and had sex, they understand other social cues and body language, but when it comes to kissing they just jump straight to making out like a sloppy horny 14 year old boy who has never kissed anyone before. How is this even possible? Is it lack of self-awareness, gfs also being horrible at kissing, flat out lying?? I don't even understand.
I went on a third date with a guy. We have a lot of chemistry so I was anticipating he'd try a goodnight kiss. He jokingly asked if we could "make out" (really? we're in our 30s dude) but I just responded with "Well I'd have to see how the first kiss goes". I should have just flat out said no. Learn from my mistake, ladies.
Usually most scrotes manage to contain themselves and will start out with a fairly conservative first kiss, maybe attempting to build it up to a French kiss, but they back off if I don't allow it. It's usually only the second or third time that they start trying to eat my face.
Well, this one skipped right over all that and practically jumped me when I wasn't even expecting it, tried to stick his tongue down my throat, no rhyme or reason to what he was doing - and WAY too forceful. I was honestly so shocked I just froze. Not even a peck to start out with!!
Now I have to figure out how to diplomatically deal with this considering I know him irl, and he seems enamoured with me now...
I just can't believe any woman would experience that and go "yeah, this is the guy for me, I need to lock that aggressive face eater down". 💀💀💀
Most men are bad kissers, tight lipped with no emotion or eat your face like and apple. I've only hand 2 great kissers and neither one of them were aware of it. The ones who talked about how much they enjoyed kissing and are good kissers were the worst face eaters I've ever met.
My ex even ventured to tell me that I helped him "improve his skills" after I literally had to make him stop actively drooling on my face and in my mouth during sex. Ugh, why did I put up with that?
Men who are bad kissers don’t actually like you. When you kiss, you’re supposed to engage with the other person and put actual feelings and care behind what you’re doing. Men who don’t do this don’t care about you and don’t want to feel anything except sexual feelings. Run for the hills if his kiss is bad to you. Hell, there’s even an old song that says, “It’s in his kiss.” many males don’t even want to kiss, because they know it gives them away.
Bleh, bad kissers abound I'm afraid. Not even gonna go into how many average kissers there are either- like a good kisser knows how to kiss well even (and especially) without tongue. If tongue is the end all be all goal of every kiss then he ain't a good kisser
bad kissers make me hate kissing even more. it's honestly super laughable that scrotes want to kiss so much but they're TERRIBLE at it.
Honestly, I don't think there are bad kissers out there, just people who don't have the same vibe as you. For every "bad kisser" there's someone who will go: wow, that was a great kiss.
That being said, I can count the guys I really enjoyed kissing on one hand.
I have met so many bad kissers. It kills any passion. The last guy that kissed me was extremely forceful and it felt like a porn kiss. Men need to start slowly and gently if they want to entice us.
Ugh yea my ex and I NEVER KISSED AND WE WENT OUT FOR FIVE YEARS! He was a terrible kisser
Yeah, I made up my mind about this stuff in middleschool. Every single wattpad novel was about manwhores. The playboy who slept with the school's entire female population. This disrespectful and arrogant individual always gets some paragraph about how because he's so extremely practiced and has perfected his technique on a 1000 woman and by the time he gets to the pure, virginal female lead he shows her the most skilled sex human possible. How he hits every angle with perfect precision. Not to mention, this is the pure and virginal FL's reward was remaining pure and virginal because she not like all the other girls at school who were "easy to get, easy to forget". Every girl before op was collateral damage so ML could become the perfect lover that a girl who "waited" deserves. In real life, the girls who adored these books will always end up treated like the collateral dange background chracters no matter how much the scrote convinces them that they're "not like other girls", it feels real and different with you! Why? Jordan peterson may be a scrote but he's slightly better than the average one. He explained that guys who are always sleeping with a different girl on campus become like sociopaths, they can't love any woman. They lose their empathy and ability to bond. And it's true, in order to respect "a woman", you need to respect "all woman" except the ones that did something awful. Men that say something along the lines of "you're not like other women", are basically saying "I don't like women, I will praise you for not being like those people". Men that don't like women are gay, or homoerotic while hating the thing they are attracted to. Back to the main point. A guy that slept with a hundred woman is more likely to be a guy who "just can't find the clit", who can't make you orgasm, who doesn't take the time to learn your body and please you. Why? Because if he uses women like they're interchangeable and disposable, he never focused on female pleasure. He most likely barely touched them. Maybe 60 seconds of getting himself off and feeling like added another notch to his belt. Hearing the common complaint from woman when they say they need a little more in bed and the man responds "while this worked on my previous partners, so I know what I'm doing, maybe there's something wrong with YOU". Experience doesn't improve men, it only gives them audacity (they use the same wrong technique again and again, because women who never had an orgasm don't know its possible for sex to feel good). The amount of men that say "everyone is responsible for their own orgasm" when they know they're about to be replaced with vibrators is even more proof. On the other hand, I have much higher hopes for a man who may be a virgin or just lower on sexual experience, who listens to you, takes the time to learn your body, educates himself on what sex therapists say, learns to find the clit (learn the names of the parts of the vagina on a diagram), takes the time to carefully see what he's doing at first instead of just smashing with no sense of direction.
What do you do when you’re dating one? Fix them, or dump them?
I had a very confusing situation once where I was not attracted to the guy's face but he was an INCREDIBLE kisser so I ended up dating him for two months. It was so confusing! I felt the chemistry and wanted him to kiss me all the time, but every time I looked at his face I would just think to myself "I do not find this attractive." I want to be able to tell my boyfriend that I think he is hot and not be lying every time I say that.
I absolutely cannot stand bad kissers! I don’t want to brag but I’m good at it so I need someone to match that. all the attraction is gone when a guy is a bad kisser
UGH this is really timely for me. I was vaguely seeing someone for MONTHS (yes in violation of most FDS guidelines) before he even tried to kiss me and then when he finally did…well, I sure wish he would have tried it in the beginning, because that way I could have lost interest months ago instead of feeling like an idiot for finding out NOW!!