At times I wonder if men are even worth building a future with

Today I've seen a frustrated baby mama looking disappointingly at a bag full of low-quality baby clothing and her child is sleeping in the stroller. The dude arrives who happened to be the child's father because the woman angrily started shouting at him, complaining that the clothing are bad quality because it lost a shade of color after washing it one time, showing him the shitty clothing he brought. I was no longer bothered to listen to the screeching, so I went back inside. later I heard louder screeching from an older woman and it's probably her mother to defend her daughter and yells at the dude that he claims he doesn't have enough money but gladly buys a ps5 for himself.

I can't imagine holding onto the short stick like that. When I try to talk about my worries ppl always say " Not all men are bad"

But it happens way too often that the baby daddy sucks, they dodge any vetting strategy and you only know what kind of father men will be when it's already too late and you're stuck at home.

If not all men are bad then why are good fathers considered rare? Or the woman is lucky because her man is very keen in hands on parenting?

Men in general are always a strong believer in hands on parenting until it's expected from them, All of the sudden they give a blank stare and rant about how women are better caregivers but with the same mouth they blame criminality on single mothers..