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Hi everyone , hope u are well.
Few days ago , I had made a post asking for help and I did receive a lot of it . Many comments were helpful , some were really Harsh too , it felt hurt reading them but later on I realised where I was going wrong.
ladies, if you are new to this site , please just follow what our fellow queens are advising , although it may be really harsh at times , it’s better to hear it from well wishing women rather than face the consequences after believing smooth talking men. We women make the fatal mistake of buying Into the smart strategy of men who tell us to be in the moment and not overthink .
Being in the moment leads to nothing but regret and i realised after a lot of introspection that it’s a Strategy they have come up with to blindside us and making Us lower our defences as “ overthinking” . FDS ladies might be harsh at times , but they do care .
Fellow queens here want us to live our best life possible and make it their duty to open our eyes to the fake obsession which men put us to at times .
I'll be honest, there were some pieces of advice FDS would give that I was skeptical about, but the more experience I have with different men, the more I realize that FDS was right all along. The advice is hard to hear sometimes, but this place is a cornicopia of wise women who actually know what they are talking about and share their insighta for a reason
Wow, I have come here and read your post just after skimming the Red Pill Women subreddit for the first time. Some women on there are being treated awfully in their relationships and there are responses from other women telling them not to overthink it and "let themselves be happy"! AKA bury your head in the sand and pretend things are okay.
FDS is the most real and helpful approach to relationships that I have come across. It's by women, for women and it does not hide away from the often painful realities that women experience. I'm so glad that I found it (2 years ago now!) and so thankful to the women here who give their time and advice so that we can all move forward.
I’d rather “harsh” advice that prevents me and my fellow woman winding up as another DV statistic.
I’m glad you were able to get some good advice. That being said I do think sometimes the hoarseness is unwarranted. There are ways to say things and be assertive and clear without having to be mean. I always try to respond empathetically as much as I can personally. Different vibes I guess!
But you’re right everyone just wants people to live their best life, sometimes it can be Toughlove.
I’m glad we could help. Sometimes tough love is what you need.
Honestly, I wish I had used the vetting techniques on FDS BEFORE entering a shitty ass relationship with a LVM. I saw all the red flags since the beginning, but still wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. The result: he made my life miserable and then left me lmao
There is a difference between being kind and being good. Being good is telling the truth even if it is uncomfortable.