I am posting this because the way he lines up his arguments are a common male narrative that I have even read on here.
You behaving in a "dignified" way does not make LVM respect you, contrary to popular beliefs. It just makes them work harder to deceive you and then dump you when they feel like they got you, exactly the way he did.
As HVW, we have to act in a way that is respectful of ourselves and our values, but that has nothing to do with attracting a man, in my opinion.
I have been the woman who loves to party and was promiscuous. I still love to party but I currently have 0 Low Value Males in my DMs because I now have a rock solid self esteem and have been ruthlessly vetting. I have currently 0 male disrespecting me in any way shape or form.
We need to get rid off these male centered narrative altogether.
Ah yes the ole "SoUnDs LiKe a pErSonAl PrObLeM"
3.5 billion women, all over the world, made up of all sorts of different types of women, experiencing the exact same men, all over the world - is "personal"
Translation: Please pleeeaase quit talking about abusive men! You're cockblocking me! Women who talk about their experiences are LV. (Smug checkmate females face)
"Women are responsible for mens actions"
Translation: I've been connected to pornhub on an IV drip since I was 10, so I KNOW women. Also, if I ever have a daughter, I'll molest her the second shes out of diapers. She asked for it by potty training herself, after all.
And then he ends it with "PICK BETTER"
Translation: Pick better but also quit talking about us abusive men! Quit talking about red flags!
Sir, what the fuck do you think the purpose of this forum is? The silver lining in this is that he wont be missed when he's gone. 🤷