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I am posting this because the way he lines up his arguments are a common male narrative that I have even read on here.
You behaving in a "dignified" way does not make LVM respect you, contrary to popular beliefs. It just makes them work harder to deceive you and then dump you when they feel like they got you, exactly the way he did.
As HVW, we have to act in a way that is respectful of ourselves and our values, but that has nothing to do with attracting a man, in my opinion.
I have been the woman who loves to party and was promiscuous. I still love to party but I currently have 0 Low Value Males in my DMs because I now have a rock solid self esteem and have been ruthlessly vetting. I have currently 0 male disrespecting me in any way shape or form.
We need to get rid off these male centered narrative altogether.
HVMs treat ALL women well. And if he doesn't respect a woman's life choices then he should simply not get involved with her.
tldr: it's all women's fault and men are not accountable for anything ever. 🥱
This post enrages me. Fuck him and fuck them all. How they treat women is ON THEM and there is NO excuse for it. No woman should be subjected to "fuckboi" behaviour. If she is vulnerable and has low confidence (from living in this patriarchal hell hole) how about not taking advantage? How about not sleeping with or dating her? How about being a decent human being? Women everywhere don't owe it to men to twist ourselves into pretzels to receive ProPeR TreaTMent. Just reading this makes me want to tear his head off. What he says is the TRUTH. They know what they are doing. The entitlement is beyond the pale. I would like to stop reading their hateful words in this safe space. Just his sentence structure made me nauseous.
Here's a newsflash for him. I don't want to date any man who would treat a woman the way he describes. I've chosen to remain single because it is everywhere. He hasn't considered the fact that misogyny and cruelty always shows its ugly face, and women WILL pick up on it.
The way I see it, I don't need a man for procreation, financial security or protection. Why would I accept someone with low moral standards as a companion? It's a situation of diminishing returns for any woman.
Don't listen to this guy. 1. "Some go, some stay" so you have a herem of stayers? Lol. Also he dumped both women he was with so he is most likely avoidant and obviously not a HVM. He says "the woman matters" because some help him keep his mask on longer and others he shows his true scote colors quickly. The real reason he walked is most likely that pretending to be HV was exhausting and he didn't want to get exposed. 2. Though it is important a man knows you will walk if you are disrespected, a good man isn't gonna treat you badly if you are not compatible. He will just tell you that he hopes you find what you are looking for and back out. Know who treats you well or badly based on his perception of you? Bunghole scrotes. They are always telling on themselves.
"Oh baby YOU make me want to treat you well and be a good man" ======> Abuser
Women have standards: men are like "entitled bitch"
Women lower their standards when they realise no man can meet them: "you deserved to be abused, bitch"
Ah yes the ole "SoUnDs LiKe a pErSonAl PrObLeM"
3.5 billion women, all over the world, made up of all sorts of different types of women, experiencing the exact same men, all over the world - is "personal"
Translation: Please pleeeaase quit talking about abusive men! You're cockblocking me! Women who talk about their experiences are LV. (Smug checkmate females face)
"Women are responsible for mens actions"
Translation: I've been connected to pornhub on an IV drip since I was 10, so I KNOW women. Also, if I ever have a daughter, I'll molest her the second shes out of diapers. She asked for it by potty training herself, after all.
And then he ends it with "PICK BETTER"
Translation: Pick better but also quit talking about us abusive men! Quit talking about red flags!
Sir, what the fuck do you think the purpose of this forum is? The silver lining in this is that he wont be missed when he's gone. 🤷
“I am a man” Opinion discarded, then. bye.
"I'm 23 years old..." Okay little one. Go back to playing with your toys now...
The so called 'bad women' he's describing are literally just traumatized women just trying to cope with everything that's happened to her by acting out via partying, promiscuity, hanging around losers, etc. The fact that he remembered to include "has low self worth and lets other people disrespect her + stays around afterwards" really shines the light on how much of an abusive man he is. Clearly he targets particular women who tend to come from abusive families or broken homes.
He wouldn't dare to go after actual bad women lol. The ~baddies~ who would laugh loudly in his face if he tried to pull one of his tricks out of his ass to try to humble her. The self aware ones who could play him like a fiddle. If they could just have a couple of months with him, they would clean him out from both his wallet AND his self-esteem. He knows this and that's why he tries to strike lower and goes after women who feel to weak to fight him back.
Just like a typical narcissistic abuser. Ten years from now he will murder a woman and feel nothing, because she was ~bad~. Evil.
Thank you for destroying the Madonna/white complex! Scrotes will mistreat great women regardless of how we behave.
yes, i've seen such arguments here as well. at times it sounds like victim blaming (when it involves abuse of some kind), which makes me really angry. i know we need to learn how to set boundries, but there is a power inbalance when it comes to heterosexual relationships. and spoiler alert: men are the ones who have the power. therefore, they are the ones to blame. you may have all the self worth in the world. a LVM still has the power to manipulate you. all he needs is the energy to do so - and nothing makes for a better motivation than an independent, happy woman. they loooooove to destroy us. it's their sexual pleasure.
Why was he tone policing the writer? Ofc it is personal and aggressive, what's wrong with speaking from experiences and learning from it? Nothing wrong with being angry about how people mistreated you. He expected the writer to be all 😀😃😄😁😆☺️🥰 or what??? Not him admitting to manipulating and hurting women like it's soooooo coooolllll. What happened to respecting people in general? This got me mad af. What even is the point of that comment???
Men are going to treat us the way THEY CHOOSE to treat us. We are not responsible for men's choices and actions. What this scrote doesnt understand is that we dont want men who would treat us well while treating other women like shit. We dont want a man who would treat us well when we're on "good behavior" and treat us like shit when we're on "bad behavior".
ElevationKey, honey, we do not want you. You sound like a miserable sack of shit who hates women, and only pretends to not hate certain women when they are useful to you. Thats some low value bullshit. Also, ElevationKey, I dont belive you're 23. You sound younger. And 23 aint old or mature to begin with. You know a lot of readers here are middle-aged, right? Finally, I dont believe you're confident. You sound fragile. After all, what does a LVM like you have to feel confident about?
>I've treated them with respect and love
>I also proceeded to dump them
uh-huh. I also wonder if he told these serious former partners of his about what he's done with other women (if he has and they still chose to date him, they're LV and idiots, and if he hadn't told them then that in itself is hilariously disrespectful).
This man is a fucking loser ! Get a life dude instead of lurking on women's dating forum and writing your fantasies about women who never were with you . Typical projection . 🤖🤖🤡
Sounds like he's just trying to draw traffic to his instagram page with rageclicks.
Politeness and decency is the bare minimum, not something to be earned. By his own accounts, the women the man dates are getting the short end of the stick. Why would they want to be deemed "worthy" when he treats other women poorly for checks notes ...partying? He is the epitome of men who say "You're not like the other girls".
I'm not one to go clubbing. I don't even drink that much. That being said, if I had a guy determine I was "wifey material" for that alone, I'd run the other way. This man puts women on arbitrary pedestals and doesn't connect it to being the dumper, because he decided they weren't good enough. Sir, you're not a god among men, you're fresh out of college.
“I have PLAYED the ROLE of fuckboi” No scrote. One look at your ridiculous little macho icon shows you everything you need to know. Trying to school women while plugging his shitty…site? Blog? Who cares. Dipshit.
His comments literally out him as a scrote.