Another scrote to stay away from

Obvious scrote, so no loss to you. But I would like to suggest that you not give so much information away. First of all, it's none of his business why you didn't get back to him for a while. Explaining you'd been trying to log in sounds like an apology, which he is not entitled to. Second, you don't need to be quite so transparent about why you want to wait so long. Your reasons are your own- again, he's not entitled to them. Third, you do come across as angry. And you have every right to be! But I don't think even a HVM would have been too keen on that response. It does seem slightly accusatory. In the future, I would suggest leaving a little more to the imagination. Simply saying "when I feel comfortable" is enough. If he doesn't like that answer, on to the next.

Never seen a scrote use so many words to oust his rapist proclivities. So predatory AND stupid enough to make it immediately obvious. What a catch.

I don't think your response was wrong. In fact I think that a man who takes a comment about rape or murder so personal is definitely not someone any woman would like to be around. I hate it when you express a very valid and logical concern about being a woman on OLD and fearing rape or murder. Like hello? Men rape their dates all the fucking time, so if he thinks this is accusatory then he can get fucked🤷🏻‍♀️

"yOU bRiNg sO mUCh neGatiVity" bitch, if men weren't such psychos we wouldn't fear for our life and bring "negativity". Ugh

"Looks are important" I bet you, when this fact works against him, when every woman he meets doesn't find him physically attractive. He's gonna post atleast one incel rant, "women are too superficial! Women should give me a chance! Women shouldn't be allowed to reject every guy based on looks! Women should lower their standards, it doesn't matter if they're attracted to their partner!". Yet I guarantee he just thinks only guys should be allowed to think looks matter. Complete lack of brain cells. Women deal with the fact that the "perfectly nice" stranger they're meeting could be a murderer, rapist, narcissist, have a criminal record. Literally, the cops would find Jeffrey Dahmer and ted bundy red-handed and still comfort them saying "we know you're innocent, you have nothing to worry about". It's not because you're "not nice", sometimes it's precisely because you ARE nice. "Not all men" men live in perpetual victimhood without ever thinking of what it's like to worry about being raped, murdered by your date and be told it was your fault before calling the perpetrator wrong. Stop gaslighting women by saying we have "extreme" or "negative" views when we don't want to meet a stranger we hardly sent 5 messages back and forth to. We have to take precautions to protect ourselves everyday, we can't walk at night.

Yeah it is pretty childish to expect a complete stranger to blindly trust you. Also him labeling your boundaries as "negativity" 😂. He doesn't sound like someone who copes well with stressful situation

Instead of being understanding and suggest that you meet up during daytime in crowded places only he throws a man-baby fit.

I feel ill just looking at that word salad.

'I care about education but only to a certain point' = I'm a dumb fuck who couldn't graduate nursery

'I try to stay in shape but it's not easy' = I'm a fat dumb fuck who couldn't graduate nursery

'I'm always happy and goofing around' = I actually didn't graduate nursery

Jesus fucking WEPT. How do these cretins even exist?

Also, nice paedo glasses, scrote.

I would've blocked right away. What is this letter to HR? "Dear woman person. I observed your profile and decided you fit my tastes, so here is a long, boring, dry ass resume you didn't request, but I'll send anyway". Lol, bye weirdo.

He says he doesn't have many friends.

No wonder.

Tries to stay in shape.

Like fuk, lies, he puts effort into nothing.

Why does he have to stress he still goofs around at 36. Grow up already.

'The One' must ask him for help.

And probably permission to do everything else too.

Coz he's the boss.

I swear I can smell abusive people even before they open their mouths.

I just have to look at them and I know in minutes.

Many of his positive traits seem to have caveats to them. Cares about education to a certain point. I try to stay in shape but it’s not easy. Hard pass.

He is so ugly …. I wouldn’t even respond to him 🤣🤣🤣 and his message was so long “yawn”. Vet before you respond. His message alone has a lot of red flags in it, should’ve never responded or interacted with him to begin with.

Oh man. This isn’t on you - obviously! I knew he’d be a whinger even before I’d read his word salad vomit. Sigh. Not many friends? What a shocker. ‘Tries’ to stay in shape? Yeh, try harder fuckface. I also don’t like the fact he circled back with some daft question after sharing a LOT and you not responding. Take the hint, dude. What interests/disgusts me about these types is that they HAVE to leave things by inferring something negative and harmful about *you* instead of saying ‘no worries, good luck’ and keeping it moving. Hey look, you’re apparently ‘beautiful and nice’ but also negative and treat relationships like transactions. Boy’s got a wild imagination, I’ll give him that much. He got this from ONE message? Projection.com

Yep, I lost nothing coz there was nothing there in the first place.

I couldn't care less if he thought I didn't get back to him on time.

I wasn't apologizing, I was having an open conversation, as should be between adults.

I wasn't angry either, I was answering his question openly, without overthinking. I couldn't care less if he thought I was angry or in his words negative.

As regards his 'transaction' comment, if he doesn't like answering compatibility questions, imagine how abusive he'd be in a relationship, nevermind dating.

I also didn't accuse him or anyone, I made conversation. I just answered a question honestly in a conservation between adults lol which he clearly took everything personally like a child.

I don't know how I gave too much info away, I barely said anything to him.

To call someone negative after a handful of messages tells me he needs to see a therapist before even putting a profile on a dating site. He's got major issues, that I don't think can be sorted.

I feel like a normal guy would have just responded with "yeah good point fair enough" to your murder/ rapist comment

People who take everything personally, at 36!, are going to be so selfish, uncompassionate and unhealthy for a relationship let alone mear dating. How many times do we have to come across yet another ZV guy that's going to lead nowhere. Or somewhere for a little while until he has manipulated and used us the way he wants. It shouldn't take years of dating to find a good guy, if "not all men" are bad.

The guy above is basically hoping for his new toy is 'educated enough but only to certain point' meaning he hopes SHE IS unintelligent enough for him to manipulate. But he still wants her to be dumb and ask for his help, that he won't give anyway. He can barely help himself at 36 get out of diaper's.

I have to admit that the way this person writes (leaving out some words, misuse of definite/indefinite articles) reminded me strongly of some online crap I've read over the years. If the writer is indeed the man in the photo, I'd be 100% surprised. I think it's an overseas catfisher trying to get something from a woman -- and when you didn't immediately nibble at the bait, you went on the discard pile. I feel quite sure that this person is sending out dozens or hundreds of messages (just see how generic his initial message is -- there's absolutely nothing specific he's responding to) in hopes of getting just a few women who aren't clear-thinking and rational and, you know, normal.

I'm not saying there are a lot of HVM in the world -- I'm just saying, they're not likely to be found on OLD.

I bet he copy/pastes the first message to every woman, ew. And I love that he 'tries to keep in shape but iT's HaRd!' but still maintains that 'lOokS aRe ImpOrTanT (for women)'. Hypocrisy at its finest!

Would love to see your compatibility questions just for interest. Even just for something to mull over myself! As for Luke LOL no loss there