So, I recently noticed a patterned with a guy friend. He never goes after women who come from two parent households. The girls always have come from single parent home.
Might not be weird. I don't know a lot of people who actually come from two parent households. If he SAYS that's what he goes for though, yeah, that's weird.
See, we had a conversation about one girl that he use to date. Her parents were still married. He complained about how they’re always involved in her life. That relationship lasted six months.The girls who come from the single parent home last like a year or two. So, now, I’m wondering about it.
"He complained about how they’re always involved in her life. "
That tells me all I need to know, he doesn't like she has a support system who might be able to call him our on his BS. Such as her father who knows how bad men can be.
In the worst case scenario, if her parents are involved in an intrusive or abusive way, the fact he ran instead of helping show he is no prize.
I bet it's the first option. Abuse 101: separate the target from the support system for better control
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Jan 10, 2023
This is the abusers M.O. But he's cutting out the middle man. Instead of going through all the work of isolating her from her friends and family, he just finds a girl who already has a broken home, so she's already isolated. My Ex Narcissist loved that I was/am an orphan. I don't have parents or any family so there was less to isolate me from. But he did try to cut me off from the couple friends that I've got.
Is it because there is no father around to side-eye him? 👀
Might not be weird. I don't know a lot of people who actually come from two parent households. If he SAYS that's what he goes for though, yeah, that's weird.
This is the abusers M.O. But he's cutting out the middle man. Instead of going through all the work of isolating her from her friends and family, he just finds a girl who already has a broken home, so she's already isolated. My Ex Narcissist loved that I was/am an orphan. I don't have parents or any family so there was less to isolate me from. But he did try to cut me off from the couple friends that I've got.