A Study On The 1 Year Outcomes of 'Friends with Benefits' (PATREON EPISODE)

becoming fwb in order to get exclusive and have a relationship is like buying tickets for basic and hope for the VIP

I'm sensitive about people seeing me naked. There is no way I could accept a FWB.

Best case scenario - you have a 3 in 20 chance of convincing him to be your bf. That sounds pretty sucky.

There are no benefits for a woman to give her body and time to a man who doesn't think she's good enough to be his wife or girlfriend. And the cards are stacked against women due to our nature and the hormone oxytocin. It's nearly impossible for the female to not start to have feelings where it's the exact opposite for men. It's nearly impossible for men to ever have flings for any woman much less one he's already decided is just a f*ck toy.

Im not surprised at the results.

I dont have a problem with FWB relationships, I had a long and fulfilling one with a great guy that perfectly suited my needs at a time I was very busy, not looking to spend the emotional bandwidth on a traditional relationship, but still wanted great sex with somebody I trusted. We’re still good friends to this day.

But I didnt have any fantasies of it eventually becoming a relationship. If you go in with hopes or intentions of trying to turn an FWB situation into something more, you’re just setting yourself up to get hurt.

This was a painfully accurate episode. I’ve had three fwb’s turn into relationships as that was how my social circle at time operated, but each was truly awful and the men were abusive and put in zero effort because they already got the milk for free.