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Is he ghosting you? Mistreating you? Abusing you?
Not defining his intentions towards you? Stringing you along? Back burning you?
Are you second guessing? Are you confused? Are you hurt?
If you are, then remember:
It's your thoughts that are making him special.
It's your imagination that is making him more than what he is.
It's your energy/boredom/craving of love and attention that is making you think he is the one.
✨ It's all you. You're doing this. Not him. ✨
Without your thoughts, your imagination and your energy he is plain. He is boring. And, let's face it, he probably doesn't even wash his ass.
Don't settle for this. Don't give second chances.
Block, delete, forget.
Plus it's often our own qualities that we project onto men.
Nobody who deserved a 2nd chance would ever do anything to make you need to give them one. Remember that. I learned the hard way.
Great reminder. Thank you.
I need this reminder every day.
Great post. Also, this quote has helped me a lot through moments of wavering and weakness: “how they treat you is more important than how much you like them”