Although I have often wondered whether 'feminised' is just code for 'you need to sit down, behave, and accept that you have to follow other people's standards of behaviour and rules, and I have a massive problem with that because my ego is so fragile'. They don't think they should have to follow anyone's rules but their own.
But that's how school has always been! Even before women were allowed to be teachers and girls were allowed to attend. Men literally made those rules themselves and considered them perfectly fine as long as boys performed well.
Yep, and that's what I mean - it's all just massive, contradictory cope 😂 yet another fine demonstration of clearheaded, rational thinking brought to you by the 'LoGiCaL gEnDeR'.
You're very right about this because this is a big reason why a lot of men are always unemployed. Their big, fragile egos make them feel that they shouldn't have to listen to a manager or supervisor because they "don't like being told what to do" so they quit, struggle, get a new job, quit again for the same reason and the cycle continues.
YES. This is what absolutely SLAYS me. Men - and even some women! - blame us for creating this problem by 'radicalising' ourselves and going the FDS (or equivalent) way, as if finally learning how to protect ourselves and prioritise our own needs, wants and goals, maybe for the first time ever, is a heinous crime and the same thing as actively hurting and abusing men.
I suppose it would be, IF you agreed with that underlying assumption that men are entitled to women's lives, time, and energy, and that by us choosing to direct these things in a way that best suits ourselves rather than them, we are robbing those men of something that is rightfully theirs.
I also hate how our 'radicalisation' is deemed equivalent to, and just as problematic as, the male equivalent (PUAs, TRP, MRAs, and incels). These are not even remotely comparable. Women in this situation get on with their OWN lives and focus on themselves and their loved ones while harming absolutely no-one; men, on the other hand, go out of their way to continue to insert themselves, often violently, into women's lives, with intent to cause damage. THAT'S the difference.
What they also fail to acknowledge is that there would BE no need for us to 'radicalise' in the first place if we weren't so fucking sick and tired of constantly being let down again and again by the men in our lives who were supposed to protect us and care for us BUT DIDN'T.
So yeah, if by 'radicalising' you mean finally being clear-headed after living in a fog created by years of cultural, familial and societal gaslighting, and utterly ruthless in our pursuing our own priorities and goals, then...I guess we are, and I can't say I'm sorry.
Word. Single women are the real "WGTOW", as in they get on with their lives, whereas men "going their own way" usually manifests as constantly antagonizing women and trying to get revenge on them.
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Dec 02, 2022
Yes! Yet another example of woman getting blamed for a man's issues. Something that helped me to have high standards was framing it as "if a man can't meet my standards it's his problem, not mine." ✨
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Dec 03, 2022
ok sisters, here's what we are gonna do: everytime we see a post/article/youtube video about "men are lonenly boo hoo" we'll comment something like what this absolute queen mentioned.
"just lower your standards""maybe don't be such a bitch" (or whatever the male equivalent for that is)
"you should try not being ugly. be hot."
"that happens because you suck at sex. learn how to pleasure women."
"you better learn about what women like or you'll end up like a lonely cat gentleman"
also things like "you should pay for dates", which they would immediately refuse and say it's unreasonable and absurd. then we can respond with "look, i don't make the rules... just trying to help" and "ok. die alone then."
Men who are alone usually have themselves to thank for That. Their behaviour is general is shitty. They hide their true colours very well until cracks are visible. They want attention but would never give attention to people who don’t fit their beauty standard. They want to be entertained but never do something great for others. They are lonely and expect others especially pretty ladies to solve that problem for them, instead of setting away from the gaming console and be pleasant And thoughtful.
If you’re alone and your whole life revolves around a man or men in your life (whether romantic or just male family members), yes being alone would be sad or uncomfortable. But I think every woman can unlearn this dangerous and toxic mindset.But men who are alone and with a mindset that XX chromosomes were created to make them feel better, be their trophies, give them anything they want, etc. have a more difficult time. And they should have a difficult time. That inherently selfish mindset that women are there to prop them up is good reason for them to be alone. They don’t want to do the work needed to heal, move up in life, make things better. They want a woman who will put her life on pause and do the work for him and facilitate him. We can’t fix incels by having sex with them whenever they want to. The burden is on them to get help, make friends, be a part of a community, etc.
When I compare single women I know (not just myself obviously) and single men, the single women are absolutely leveling up. The single men? Not so much. The difference is the single women worked on themselves. The single men have not. And the single men that I have known who did work on themselves didn't stay single. They found women pretty easily *because* they became attractive by doing this.
Yeah, the average woman will be happy to snatch up any halfway decent man, so a man staying single despite all the patriarchal and libfem brainwashing is very sus. It's a downward spiral from there because they will get angry and bitter from being denied what they feel entitled to, making them even more undesirable. The only way to break the cycle is to start taking an honest look at themselves and trying to be better. Not for the sake of getting women, but for their own sake.
whenever i see tweets like that, i fondly recall how my mother is practically a decade older than my male boss, had kids, had a toxic marriage, doesn't go out much and yet is much happier as a single woman and has an easier time with learning and retaining new things/experiences. compared to him and his failed marriages and multiple personal issues that he simply refuses to address.
Ugh I really hate this "oh no we have failed our young men as a society 😔 we need to do better 😔" discourse when the vast majority of lonely men are lonely because they're antisocial, misogynist creeps who fucked up their brain's reward systems and can't tolerate a single ounce of discomfort to better their lives. Women who struggle because of systemic issues rarely get the tiniest amount of sympathy, it's either "well yeah sucks to be you but you just need to buckle up and stop playing the victim" or downright gaslighting and abuse. If you did the former to a man, he'd cry how society is So CrUeL to men and doesn't allow them to have emotions, blah blah. Well, guess what, our modern capitalism and patriarchy is cruel towards EVERYONE except the few at the top. It doesn't allow for humanity and empathy, only greed. This is what MEN created so they could secure their power. And now they're realizing that this system fails a big chunk of people (men and women, but mostly women) who for whatever reason are not "tough" or privileged enough – and this a surprise to them? How? It's all working as designed. Men are the first to spout "survival of the fittest" crap and jerk off to their perceived superiority, they can't turn around and demand a leg up now. Men are salty that they can't achieve the success that was promised to them by virtue of being a man, and now people (mostly women) should rush to them and soothe their egos. No thanks. We're too busy fighting for our own existence and fending off scrotes, while dealing with even more injustices than the average man will know. No one gives a flying f*ck about women's loneliness, how their needs are not being met, it's all our own fault apparently, so men can't expect much sympathy from me.
I think it's pretty weird that the system had to be completely rigged for men to succeed. As soon as women were allowed to go to college and not be fired for getting married/pregnant, men started falling apart at the seams. Ita not that hard to go to college or trade school, show up to class, learn what you need to learn, and then go forge your career. It's not that difficult, but for men, there's this lack of motivation we're seeing, and I think it's because they were expecting things to be handed to them? For life to be arranged in such a way that they'd always at least win against a woman? But now that the cards aren't so stacked against women, it's like they don't even want to compete at all.
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Dec 06, 2022
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i disagree with the "it's not that hard" stuff. it is hard, but for men it's usually easier. however, i agree when you say they expect things to be handed to them. when you have so many privileges, doing the real thing without all of those privileges seems really hard and unfair. they are completely blind for the level of privilege they have (or maybe they just pretend to be blind).
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They're not going to college, so they don't have diplomas. And they can barely keep themselves alive, let alone cats.
YES. This is what absolutely SLAYS me. Men - and even some women! - blame us for creating this problem by 'radicalising' ourselves and going the FDS (or equivalent) way, as if finally learning how to protect ourselves and prioritise our own needs, wants and goals, maybe for the first time ever, is a heinous crime and the same thing as actively hurting and abusing men.
I suppose it would be, IF you agreed with that underlying assumption that men are entitled to women's lives, time, and energy, and that by us choosing to direct these things in a way that best suits ourselves rather than them, we are robbing those men of something that is rightfully theirs.
I also hate how our 'radicalisation' is deemed equivalent to, and just as problematic as, the male equivalent (PUAs, TRP, MRAs, and incels). These are not even remotely comparable. Women in this situation get on with their OWN lives and focus on themselves and their loved ones while harming absolutely no-one; men, on the other hand, go out of their way to continue to insert themselves, often violently, into women's lives, with intent to cause damage. THAT'S the difference.
What they also fail to acknowledge is that there would BE no need for us to 'radicalise' in the first place if we weren't so fucking sick and tired of constantly being let down again and again by the men in our lives who were supposed to protect us and care for us BUT DIDN'T.
So yeah, if by 'radicalising' you mean finally being clear-headed after living in a fog created by years of cultural, familial and societal gaslighting, and utterly ruthless in our pursuing our own priorities and goals, then...I guess we are, and I can't say I'm sorry.
Yes! Yet another example of woman getting blamed for a man's issues. Something that helped me to have high standards was framing it as "if a man can't meet my standards it's his problem, not mine." ✨
ok sisters, here's what we are gonna do: everytime we see a post/article/youtube video about "men are lonenly boo hoo" we'll comment something like what this absolute queen mentioned.
"just lower your standards" "maybe don't be such a bitch" (or whatever the male equivalent for that is)
"you should try not being ugly. be hot."
"that happens because you suck at sex. learn how to pleasure women."
"you better learn about what women like or you'll end up like a lonely cat gentleman"
also things like "you should pay for dates", which they would immediately refuse and say it's unreasonable and absurd. then we can respond with "look, i don't make the rules... just trying to help" and "ok. die alone then."
Men who are alone usually have themselves to thank for That. Their behaviour is general is shitty. They hide their true colours very well until cracks are visible. They want attention but would never give attention to people who don’t fit their beauty standard. They want to be entertained but never do something great for others. They are lonely and expect others especially pretty ladies to solve that problem for them, instead of setting away from the gaming console and be pleasant And thoughtful.
If you’re alone and your whole life revolves around a man or men in your life (whether romantic or just male family members), yes being alone would be sad or uncomfortable. But I think every woman can unlearn this dangerous and toxic mindset. But men who are alone and with a mindset that XX chromosomes were created to make them feel better, be their trophies, give them anything they want, etc. have a more difficult time. And they should have a difficult time. That inherently selfish mindset that women are there to prop them up is good reason for them to be alone. They don’t want to do the work needed to heal, move up in life, make things better. They want a woman who will put her life on pause and do the work for him and facilitate him. We can’t fix incels by having sex with them whenever they want to. The burden is on them to get help, make friends, be a part of a community, etc.
If only my problems throughout life had been so few and so small that simply having sex could solve them 😂
they never talk about men being lonely while with a partner, but partnered women everywhere are still lonely because their partners are so selfish
I’m pretty sure most men would spontaneously combust if they had to admit something is their own fault… so here we are.
When I compare single women I know (not just myself obviously) and single men, the single women are absolutely leveling up. The single men? Not so much. The difference is the single women worked on themselves. The single men have not. And the single men that I have known who did work on themselves didn't stay single. They found women pretty easily *because* they became attractive by doing this.
whenever i see tweets like that, i fondly recall how my mother is practically a decade older than my male boss, had kids, had a toxic marriage, doesn't go out much and yet is much happier as a single woman and has an easier time with learning and retaining new things/experiences. compared to him and his failed marriages and multiple personal issues that he simply refuses to address.
women just win at being better at everything.
Holy shit this is so accurate.
Ugh I really hate this "oh no we have failed our young men as a society 😔 we need to do better 😔" discourse when the vast majority of lonely men are lonely because they're antisocial, misogynist creeps who fucked up their brain's reward systems and can't tolerate a single ounce of discomfort to better their lives. Women who struggle because of systemic issues rarely get the tiniest amount of sympathy, it's either "well yeah sucks to be you but you just need to buckle up and stop playing the victim" or downright gaslighting and abuse. If you did the former to a man, he'd cry how society is So CrUeL to men and doesn't allow them to have emotions, blah blah. Well, guess what, our modern capitalism and patriarchy is cruel towards EVERYONE except the few at the top. It doesn't allow for humanity and empathy, only greed. This is what MEN created so they could secure their power. And now they're realizing that this system fails a big chunk of people (men and women, but mostly women) who for whatever reason are not "tough" or privileged enough – and this a surprise to them? How? It's all working as designed. Men are the first to spout "survival of the fittest" crap and jerk off to their perceived superiority, they can't turn around and demand a leg up now. Men are salty that they can't achieve the success that was promised to them by virtue of being a man, and now people (mostly women) should rush to them and soothe their egos. No thanks. We're too busy fighting for our own existence and fending off scrotes, while dealing with even more injustices than the average man will know. No one gives a flying f*ck about women's loneliness, how their needs are not being met, it's all our own fault apparently, so men can't expect much sympathy from me.
I think it's pretty weird that the system had to be completely rigged for men to succeed. As soon as women were allowed to go to college and not be fired for getting married/pregnant, men started falling apart at the seams. Ita not that hard to go to college or trade school, show up to class, learn what you need to learn, and then go forge your career. It's not that difficult, but for men, there's this lack of motivation we're seeing, and I think it's because they were expecting things to be handed to them? For life to be arranged in such a way that they'd always at least win against a woman? But now that the cards aren't so stacked against women, it's like they don't even want to compete at all.
I actually did suggest this on Facebook, on my own feed and on another group. It resonated! Three hundred plus likes and still going.