Yuck! Men need to do all this. We already do it and if they don’t notice, it’s past time to walk away. I am so done with the whole do MORE! Be MORE! You’re never enough. Nope, fuck that shit. I’m plenty and every woman is quite enough already. Hell most men find us too much. They need to step up. Just more projection.
This list should apply to men first before they ask what they want from a woman because women do all of that and more already. 😒😒 Why don’t they step up and level up themselves first?? They have nothing to offer these days 🤣
4) Tell him how much you love and appreciate him when he's playing video games
5) Take care of yourself - this one nearly got me lol. But here we have the caveat: "It's true we need to take care of ourselves before we can take care of others." I don't know about you, queens, but it's hard to look after the manchild when I've burnt out
6) Empathise with them. Women do traditionally suffer from a lack of empathy in comparison to men, after all
7) Let him pressure you into sex
8) Don't call for help
9) Accept bread-crumbing or abuse.
10) This one does have the reciprocal built it - you should indeed support each others dreams.
I wonder what the big things every man secretly wants are?
In my 30s, I voraciously read every article I could find about what men want, since I’d gotten divorced and still hadn’t figured out that there was nothing I could do, be, or say to get a man to love me. Thank God, I finally aged out of PickMeIsm. The countless hours I sound learning how to be a good girlfriend and wife when I should have just had a glass of wine or took a nap. SMH. I never rad that type of nonsense anymore, because no matter what I did, it never changed men’s bad intentions towards me.
I feel this so hard. In my mid 30s, I *literally* spent every moment outside of work reading relationship advice columns, books, dating blogs and attending dating workshops and a small fortune in therapy trying to figure out why I was still single. I followed all of the advice given to a tee and none of it worked and not a single man seemed to notice or care how desperately hard I was trying to get them to love me.Similar that I aged out of it and I deeply regret those 5 years that I could have spent working on my career or a passion project.
Why do they always put pics of ugly scrotes at the beginning of these "life changing" lists?Are they trying to match the garbage literature with an equally unappealing picture?As if seeing that dude will make us go extra mile in our respective lives
I laughed when it said "step 7: develop empathy." Yes, that's something women typically lack. Why does dating advice for women so often have this rude tone? Why would I want to read an advice article that tells me I suck?
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Yuck! Men need to do all this. We already do it and if they don’t notice, it’s past time to walk away. I am so done with the whole do MORE! Be MORE! You’re never enough. Nope, fuck that shit. I’m plenty and every woman is quite enough already. Hell most men find us too much. They need to step up. Just more projection.
This list should apply to men first before they ask what they want from a woman because women do all of that and more already. 😒😒 Why don’t they step up and level up themselves first?? They have nothing to offer these days 🤣
1) Prioritise his needs over your own
2) Smile, it can't be that bad, love.
3) All the problems are your fault
4) Tell him how much you love and appreciate him when he's playing video games
5) Take care of yourself - this one nearly got me lol. But here we have the caveat: "It's true we need to take care of ourselves before we can take care of others." I don't know about you, queens, but it's hard to look after the manchild when I've burnt out
6) Empathise with them. Women do traditionally suffer from a lack of empathy in comparison to men, after all
7) Let him pressure you into sex
8) Don't call for help
9) Accept bread-crumbing or abuse.
10) This one does have the reciprocal built it - you should indeed support each others dreams.
I wonder what the big things every man secretly wants are?
In my 30s, I voraciously read every article I could find about what men want, since I’d gotten divorced and still hadn’t figured out that there was nothing I could do, be, or say to get a man to love me. Thank God, I finally aged out of PickMeIsm. The countless hours I sound learning how to be a good girlfriend and wife when I should have just had a glass of wine or took a nap. SMH. I never rad that type of nonsense anymore, because no matter what I did, it never changed men’s bad intentions towards me.
So to sum this up: Look pretty at all times and stfu, got it.
Why do they always put pics of ugly scrotes at the beginning of these "life changing" lists? Are they trying to match the garbage literature with an equally unappealing picture? As if seeing that dude will make us go extra mile in our respective lives
I laughed when it said "step 7: develop empathy." Yes, that's something women typically lack. Why does dating advice for women so often have this rude tone? Why would I want to read an advice article that tells me I suck?
Me, every time I see an article promising to educate me about what men secretly want: