I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

I'd love to hear from all of you QUEENS about the things you think you have a stronghold on in dating, and the things you are working on getting better at. With the things you do well.... how do you think you make them happen? Just a random list off the top of my head: 1. My men cook for me and

Beware the man who touts himself as a “very giving” person. It will usually come up like this: “I’m a very giving person. Unfortunately, because of that, I’ve been taken advantage of in the past.” This is intended so you will drop your guard. So you will say “Oh no, poor baby! He doesn’t deserve

I have always been the ugly short chick in HS,MS and college and almost every man was borderline ashamed of even being seen with me in public. Now those same types of men have hit the wall so hard that they look unrecognizable. Not only that,but many of them are divorced with at least one kid under

Socially I feel like the vibe right now is that it's normal/trendy for guys to "like ass", but at which point does it become too much? if (during sex) a guy presses his whole face between my cheeks am I supposed to think this is completely normal part of sex or am I supposed to tell him that it's k

A guy told me he had a vasectomy (and didn't freeze any sperm). I asked what about if he one day wants to have children and he said that he would rather use a sperm donor because his genetics had given him a hard life. I'm intrigued because on the one hand that would mean his future wife could pote

This really is making me not want to date at all. “Lovers are temporary,” one study participant said during his interview. “A bromance can last a lifetime.” I hope he writes that on his dating profile to spare us all from his “bros before hoes” juvenile bullshit. https://web.archive.org/web/20

Aug 7 (Reuters) - Bumble (BMBL.O), opens new tab slashed its annual revenue growth forecast on Wednesday, stoking worries about the dating app operator's growth plans among investors, sending its shares down 30% after the bell. It also missed Wall Street estimates for second-quarter revenue unlike

This is a counter post to the post about women leaving their options open during marriage. This is not meant to put down or shame the original poster—rather, I would love to have a thoughtful conversation about the topic. Marriage is a contract between two people. Sometimes things go awry and that

I am having a tough time. My previous "relationship" ended badly when I discovered my ex was dating another woman. I was already having a hard time and this made it much worst. It took me a few months to get back to myself and I don't think about anymore ( unless I'm reminded) but it cost me great

A few weeks ago I found out the guy I was dating was not at all who I thought he was, and the story of how it came out has been morbid and disturbing. I feel I can't say this to everyone because it involves his ex gf dying and I realize that isn't about me. Some of the details of how these truths c

Sometimes I get lonely for a partner and I want to laugh. Recently, I've been looking up relationship problems about hygiene on Reddit to remind me that my last two exes were gross and most guys are. It makes me laugh to be honest. We read a lot about male depravity - which we need to be aware of,

When you were financially dependent on a man, did he ever make you feel like a burden or hold money over your head during arguments? Did you notice him ever getting an attitude towards you when you would buy things using 'his' money?

(I don't know what category to post this in.) HV relationship tips, examples of couples, inspirations, I'm trying to restructure my explore pages... I know people have mixed opinions about being on Instagram but if I'm going to be on it then I want to curate it to be beneficial to me Thank yo

How many women see their partner’s true colours on their wedding day/ honeymoon?,https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16cmvju/how_many_women_see_their_partners_true_colours_on/ I feel like no matter how much we vet, it is never enough to stop ending up with scrotes. How can we "vet aw

Translation: Are you for or against a 10 year old gap relationship where the woman is under 25 and the man is mid-30s? The answers are mostly "yes" Différence d’âge 10 ans, votre avis?,https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFrance/comments/1gc21p7/diff%C3%A9rence_d%C3%A2ge_10_ans_votre_avis/ Tr

If you are looking for an accountability partner in terms of vetting out the LVM, or in terms of self improvement, I can volunteer 😃 Anyone interested?

I can’t decide because I really like him. We started dating almost three months ago. I know I should probably break up but I’m the kind of person who just does better in a relationship and I just need someone to cuddle with so I can feel like life is worth the effort. Pros: • buys me flowers on a

Every day, I see the narrative being pushed that women aren't doing enough to break more dating gender norms. The same topics come up over and over again: - Women should ask men out. - Women should pay for dates - Women should propose. - Women should buy men flowers.  And when women do these thin

I'm not talking about sex drive (because even the most limp dick guys are obsessed with sex) but more about actual prowess (ability to get it up hard & orgasm multiple times). I don't like it when guys seem half-hard or when they orgasm once and then they are done for 24 hours, but I also don't wan

My last post, I got a rude tactless comment from one of you. It got the same ruthless format as how you would describe a scrote. But I'm not a scrote, I'm a woman, just like you. If you want to influence more women, then demonstrate empathy first. You're all too focused on MEN.

In the mid-2000s, I was a frequent magazine reader. I loved reading CosmoGirl, Seventeen, and Teen Vogue. Such nostalgia! Every now and then, these magazines would feature articles about women planning their dream weddings. All of them were obsessed with the idea of getting married, and many of the

Much like we should never stop vetting, even if we think he is HV, I'm coming to believe that women should never completely shut the door on other potential suitors. I'm of course assuming the woman married someone who met all her standards, and not that she settled for LV trash. Even still, meeting

I should re-read the handbook. But I also don’t want us to have the culture of “just read the handbook!” With each other. I want us to share with each other our struggles, and be kind and gentle both with each other and ourselves. It’s ok to struggle. And here k want to make that public today. I a

source: here The scrote gives me major nutter vibes and strikes me as the type to kill his gf if he got one and she tried to break up with him

Simply because nature has built-in double standards. That's how it works. This last weekend, while at a restaurant in a busy area with a close friend, we spotted a very attractive man. My friend expressed a sense of shame for feeling that she shouldn't want to "admire" his physical beauty while fee

Hello Queens! It's summertime so I think this is a convenient time to remind myself and everyone else about this important FDS principle (Chapter 21, page 64 in the handbook): HAVING A CRUSH IS USELESS AND IT HAS ZERO BENEFITS. I couldn't believe my eyes when I first read this header in the hand

It was originally a joke – its creator, Megan Boni (@GirlonCouch), told Today.com she was mocking women who complain about being single while having absurd non-negotiables in a prospective partner. But it’s become, among other things, an (arguably) sincere anthem for girls who genuinely want to date

My mom texted me a screenshot of a Google search which are the best dating apps for people over 30. At Easter dinner earlier this month, I had two of my former coworkers over and they asked me how dating was going. I told them I deleted the apps because I just can't find anyone worth giving a shot.